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This thread is not for choosing sides or questioning someone's character. If you have an issue with a user, ignore and/or report them.
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Zarius, if I'm not banned yet I don't see how you will.
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IMO, we've all got enough big, "real life" struggles to deal with that we shouldn't compound the stress in our lives with arguing over movies or TV shows. By all means, debate and defend, that can be a necessary release... but if it's negatively affecting your mood or your life, it's become a hindrance instead. And I've been there more times than I want to admit. I mean, we all probably have. |
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Todays my birthday. I have a ton of people calling and texting me. I just can't bring myself to answer it and I know I'll give them some bs "oh i was having such a crazy time yesterday I didn't have time" tomorrow but in reality i'm just home alone drinking. Bad day I guess. I hate birthdays.
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Buy some turtle **** for yourself. Its your birthday so treat yourself.
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I almost never answer birthday messages. Nobody's ever confronted me about it or anything, I just hate answering them all because it's tedious.
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Still home alone; much more drunk. Got a call from my ex(who I was with for 11 years) and I actually answered. Great idea for my birthday, huh? Looks like I'm digging into the Johnnie Walker Black tonight.
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What I do about my depression?
Not much really. Trying to distract myself with sweets, video games and music. Sometimes work, sometimes not. |
Sometimes I wonder if I have it... perhaps it's best to check in with a therapist before it's too late or something.
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Once you accept that, it makes things easier. It never really gets better, but it at least gets a bit easier. |
Who is the most recommended type of therapist for someone who is not sure what if it's wrong with them to see first? A psychologist or a psychiatrist?
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I don't know that it matters, or at least it hasn't in my experience. Some of the best work I've ever done has come with the aid of a counselor.
It's all about finding the right fit. The trick is to not get discouraged about the process because you may have found yourself in a session with someone who isn't the right fit. |
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It's important to make the space as safe for you as possible. The hardest work to be done requires a deep level of honesty and you're just not going to get that and if scenario where you feel you have to be guarded at all times. |
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But, on the other hand, I think I'd have it an easier time venting to a woman. Dunno if it's some stupid macho pride about "men not talking about their issues with each other or something", but I find it easier to talk about emotional issues and such with a woman. |
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