[newfan]

Just bumping an older thread.

So far as those close to us (family/friends) is concerned, you'll sometimes forgive because of what they mean to you and everything else you have done for each other but other times, with bigger things, the betrayal is bigger because you thought more of that person and so you are more let down. If the betrayal means that there can just be no trust then that relationship is ruined.

There is something I won't ever forgive but I am not plagued by it or consumed by it, just if I stop and think about it, no, I don't forgive them. I'm good with that.