I have a tiny update, I came across someone who has pictures of the farmhouse from just a few weeks ago. However he wasn't comfortable disclosing the location, which is understandable and also really sucks because we aren't any closer to finding it.
The search continues my friends, some day I'm determined to find it. I'm happy to know it hasn't been destroyed and my search isn't in vain.
https://www.facebook.com/myershousenc/ <---The persons page who found the farmhouse, the post was on Aug 20.
Seeing those pictures brought up some emotion I wont lie...