07-24-2017, 06:27 PM | #7361 |
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One thing I've always noticed about "nice guys" is that they punch waaaaaay above their weight class with women. Supermodel types aren't going to date your typical internet dweller. Yet if a girl more in their weight class comes along and shows interest, they put her down for not being good enough for them.
Also noticed most "nice guys" give all the red flags of being super controlling in relationships. Like you're expected to do what they say with no question and be available to them whenever they want, who cares what you want. Seems like a lot of them want suuuuuper young girls or foreign girls because they're easier to control. I had nice guy experience. He was nice for like a week. Then he became super abusive, mentally and physically, and super controlling. He was so insecure about me leaving him. All he did was make me want to get rid of him. And I did. I don't play that game. I never trust anyone who leads with how nice they are and how much better they will treat me. It's bullsh!t.
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07-24-2017, 06:48 PM | #7362 |
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In a new issue...
Microchip implants = Mark of the Beast I mean...how??? Sure, there might be some moral discussion with microchip implants, but "mark of the beast" is hardly an argument. Invasion of privacy is one (except that they won't have GPS), and the issues of having a foreign object in one's body is another, and what happens when someone leaves that job for one reason or another. And God knows Matt Groening needs to have accidentally predicted another thing twenty years ahead of when they happened. First President Trump, now "career chips"?
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07-24-2017, 07:14 PM | #7363 | |
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yep, bingo. that's all i was trying to get at. and sometimes even if you do have something that clicks, some people arn't always interested in the nice guy. some guys or gals go for someone with a little more, if not danger to them, at least a spark of something beyond nice. adventure, excitement, un unexpectedness....they could have all the physical parameters down that a person looks for, but if all they are is please yes and thank you....that might get boring after a while. oh well.. onto the next... |
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07-24-2017, 07:19 PM | #7364 | |
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So, they tell these folks the chip won't have gps, but will they be able to tell? What are the downsides to having this thing imbedded in their body? Quit, and it has to come out... Habe some kind of accident and its cracked or broken under the skin and employee gets sick? No person should allow anything to be embedded under their skin in order to get a job... or buy/sell goods. |
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07-24-2017, 07:28 PM | #7366 | |
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Hell, it took like 20 years and six doctors before I got a ct scan and simple bloodwork that showed the tumor in my head. All because those doctors knew better and I didn't need bloodwork or a ct scan... |
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07-24-2017, 07:31 PM | #7367 |
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Not so much punishment, but if a woman keeps flirting after a guy expresses interest AND keeps sending pics of her cleavage, or pics of her just wearing bubbles in the tub.... stop being a tease. No one wants to be teased or lead on...
If you aren't interested, its pretty easy to make sure you don't keep showing an interest thats not really there. |
07-24-2017, 07:57 PM | #7368 |
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With someone who does that stuff, makes me wonder how they'd react if you (figurative 'you') fought back and did fun stuff hanging out with and meeting other people, including members of the opposite sex, then sent fun 'selfie' pics with said opposite sex members to the 'tease' and tell them all about the GREAT time you've been having, ensuring to go on and on about it.
Grind... my Brother in law dragging a presumably wet (via basement rain water) carpet up from the basement. It must have been rubbing against the open basement and porch doors on it's way out to the porch (directly across from each other), just on the other side of the computer room door, that was making some freaky noise. We'd been having a storm, with warnings, and though it has now past the nearest thing my mind could come up with was it sounding like a weird wind, getting louder as it went, and suddenly worrying there was a tornado or something. Too tired and worn out from work the past days for this crap or thinking of slightly more reasonable explanations. lol Last edited by IndigoErth; 07-24-2017 at 08:05 PM. |
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You are not entitled to sex because you listen. You are not entitled to a relationship because you engage in the minimum amount of effort it takes to be a decent human being. We are not the participation trophy you're looking for. [/jedi mind trick] If someone you are friends with sends you unsolicited personal photographs, tell them to stop. If they do not stop, they are not your friend.
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07-25-2017, 04:40 AM | #7372 | |
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07-25-2017, 05:00 AM | #7373 |
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lol no woman is sending pics of her in the tub to mrmaczaps
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07-25-2017, 05:13 AM | #7374 |
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Complaining about not being in a relationship is the least attractive thing you can do. No one wants to get involved with someone who is desperate for companionship, because you can't tell if they are into you personally, or just the relationship itself.
Everyone has their own wants, needs, hopes, plans, etc. and yours aren't more important than theirs. If you keep failing, maybe get some professional help (not that kind of professional :-p). Might be you need to work on yourself for a while. |
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07-25-2017, 06:27 AM | #7377 | |
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but, i also learned a new term last year, casual flirting. some people may just do it naturally and not even notice. i asked someone out to coffee that i thought i had a rapport with and the look of shock and horror i got the next day was all i needed to know that i made another big mistake.... sigh. so damn embarrassed. I miss the days of cavemen interest. women or men hit you on the head with giant club, drag one back to the cave. simple, elegant...to the point. no messing around with guessing. |
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07-25-2017, 07:06 AM | #7378 | ||
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The problem with that, is that it never happened.
Kind of like how the friend zone doesn't exist. Learn to play better with others. Learn to accept rejection gracefully. Life will go much easier for you when you do.
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07-25-2017, 07:19 AM | #7379 |
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The friend zone does exist. You could be the right person in the wrong place or time.
Not saying that Virgin-San and MacDaddyKapz had a chance, but to write a situation off as "not existing" is stupid. |
07-25-2017, 07:45 AM | #7380 |
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