The New Café

[Spitfire]

My Mom ran away from home to live with a Meth dealer. This is the second time she's done it. First time she left me when I was four and I didn't see here again still I was six. I thought she was dead. She's probably going to be dead soon if she keeps this life style up as the people she's running with are dangerous.

I didn't post here to complain about it, as I came to terms with it almost instant;y*Sorta easy when it's happened before* but since everyone else has something to complain about I felt left out.

[syd]

I'm sorry to hear that,but have you talk with her 'bout this?Anyway you are someone she can trust,if not the only one?


God I got home at 24:05 after having "dinnar" with my brother and his alumnus who is about to attend to a college in Austrilia in several days.He said that he is so upset,so pressured,so wanna cry,so...in a word,he is drived crazy.Poor guy.I told him that if I were him I'd probablely got too excited to sleep,he said that I don't know that.0xo.Then I heard that he seemed had made up with his girl one month before he got his visa,which means now he has staked everything on this risky decision he made,beside of his money,his youth,he probalely would lose everything which matters to him if he came back with nothing from there.That's a very tough decision,I don't think I know what to do should I put myself in his shoes...really tough,poor guy...got his girl back in such a situation...God probablely abandoned him. or no God at all.Whatever,he keeps convincing us that God is playing with him,God is against him...I feel sorry for him,really.Austrilia is a good place to settle down,ease and comfortable circumstance,nice people,you know,a very peaceful contry,that's what i heard.And then he said:"...and get myself a new girlfriend."...(excuse me?)And there's my brother:"right,I think all you need is a girlfriend now." And he nodded:"yea,probablely,should I have a girlfriend I won't be such upset like I am now."...So it explains.

[Spitfire]

Originally Posted by syd

I'm sorry to hear that,but have you talk with her 'bout this?Anyway you are someone she can trust,if not the only one?

Actually I don't trust her, she tried to steal from me a few times.

God I got home at 24:05 after having "dinnar" with my brother and his alumnus who is about to attend to a college in Austrilia in several days.He said that he is so upset,so pressured,so wanna cry,so...in a word,he is drived crazy.Poor guy.I told him that if I were him I'd probablely got too excited to sleep,he said that I don't know that.0xo.Then I heard that he seemed had made up with his girl one month before he got his visa,which means now he has staked everything on this risky decision he made,beside of his money,his youth,he probalely would lose everything which matters to him if he came back with nothing from there.That's a very tough decision,I don't think I know what to do should I put myself in his shoes...really tough,poor guy...got his girl back in such a situation...God probablely abandoned him. or no God at all.Whatever,he keeps convincing us that God is playing with him,God is against him...I feel sorry for him,really.Austrilia is a good place to settle down,ease and comfortable circumstance,nice people,you know,a very peaceful contry,that's what i heard.And then he said:"...and get myself a new girlfriend."...(excuse me?)And there's my brother:"right,I think all you need is a girlfriend now." And he nodded:"yea,probablely,should I have a girlfriend I won't be such upset like I am now."...So it explains.

How old is your brother? In Australia they pay you to go to school. He couldn't be luckier. I asked his age because there's no point in him getting all hung up on a girl yet if he's still in college. He needs to graduate and then establish himself in the world before he goes there. Girlfriends/boyfriends do nothing but divert focus. There will always be a problem somewhere down the line that will cause you to mess up in your school work that could be avoided if you just put feelings aside till you graduated. If the person really likes you or cares about you then they will understand that. The person your with when your 20 or younger is most likely not the person you will end up marring and being with your whole life. It doesn't work like that in this day of age. Ask someone how many times they were "in love" then ask them how many relationships they've had. Sadly enough most people get love and lust confused so you'll hear allot of "6 times and 7 partners"

Just my 2 cents

[Mecha Cow]

Sorry to hear about your mother, Spit. That really sucks. Hope things turn out alright.

[gobo]

Originally Posted by Spitfire666xXxXx

My Mom ran away from home to live with a Meth dealer. This is the second time she's done it. First time she left me when I was four and I didn't see her again til I was six. I thought she was dead. She's probably going to be dead soon if she keeps this life style up as the people she's running with are dangerous.

Well, that's damned horrible... Sorry you have to deal with that.

Originally Posted by Spitfire666xXxXx

I didn't post here to complain about it, as I came to terms with it almost instantly*Sorta easy when it's happened before* but since everyone else has something to complain about I felt left out.

Good a reason as any.

[Spitfire]

Well thanks guys, like I said it's alright. I told myself I'd ignore her completely but part of me is still soft and if she calls me I answer the phone and I never deny her visitation. Even if she's a f*** up she's still my Mom. In a morbid sort of way it feels awkwardly like everything's fallen into place.

I got to Europe*Life time goal*, My Mom and Step Father separate, I quit my Job, I sign up for college, My Mom goes back to drugs and repeats what she did to my Father 15 years ago*Which was running up the bills and not paying them, cheating on my Step Dad, and eventually abandoning us all when things got their worst*, My house becomes dangerous to live in because enemies of my Step Father found out where it is because of my Mom so I had to move out, I move in with my Grandparents*Basically putting me back exactly where I was when I was 4 years old. My Mom left my Dad, My Dad couldn't afford the apartment alone, we moved in with my Grandparents*, Since I moved into another city and left it all behind I felt like I was starting fresh, then I moved to Student housing by the college and started once again just a week later, Now I'm in college.

It's a strange string of events but it all works out. It's a good thing I moved when I did because the house I was staying in is being sold in February. Meaning had I been there I'd be homeless, or end up where I was headed anyways.

Alright enough about my life, it sounds allot more exciting then it really is.

[Jester]

Well, she's your mom, that soft spot makes sence. But it sucks that you have to be the adult in the relationship. It is good to see you didn't let it stop you from moving on instead of letting it make you bitter and blaming it for all your problems. Sounds like it's made you all the stronger, my friend.

[syd]

Originally Posted by Spitfire666xXxXx

Actually I don't trust her, she tried to steal from me a few times.

Have you ever trusted someone?

Originally Posted by Spitfire666xXxXx

How old is your brother? In Australia they pay you to go to school. He couldn't be luckier. I asked his age because there's no point in him getting all hung up on a girl yet if he's still in college. He needs to graduate and then establish himself in the world before he goes there. Girlfriends/boyfriends do nothing but divert focus. There will always be a problem somewhere down the line that will cause you to mess up in your school work that could be avoided if you just put feelings aside till you graduated. If the person really likes you or cares about you then they will understand that. The person your with when your 20 or younger is most likely not the person you will end up marring and being with your whole life. It doesn't work like that in this day of age. Ask someone how many times they were "in love" then ask them how many relationships they've had. Sadly enough most people get love and lust confused so you'll hear allot of "6 times and 7 partners"

Just my 2 cents

I couldn't agree with you more.XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

My brother's 3 years older than me.And it's not him who is gonna go there,it's his alumnus, of junior school,to be precise.

Thank you for the advice,I think he probalblely have know how to do now,He was just imparting his experience to his junior generation.

[Tinuvielsdreams]

aw man I am sorry that happened... wow a lot of stuff went down with you in the last couple months. I can't believe all that has happened since last we talked, we really do have to catch up this weekend, or if you need to talk there is no rule you have to wait till then

[Fledermaus]

Roommate's gone for the weekend. Anyways, I'm at the computer, checking email and stuff... while waiting for a page to load, I casually rest my left thumb on the desk, letting my fingers drum its underside. Typical habit of mine. Anyways, something small flakes off and I catch it in the palm of my hand. I observe it in the light and find that it is unmistakably a genuine --

SNOT PARTICLE.

I've been using this desk for oh about a month. I initially noticed the underside was kinda rough, but I looked the first time and assumed the strange black smears were some kind of tar gunk. I looked again today -- the entire underside is covered in a heavy screen of dried noogies. I did not realize until now that this strange bodily discharge turns darker as it ages.

There were so many times I forgot to wash my hands before eating, after sitting at the computer...

On top of that, he's a really nice, normal guy, otherwise. Awesome even. I like him. He's a good man. More importantly, a good roommate. I want this to stop, first of all. And I wanna go on as though nothing's changed.

I'm planning on waiting til he gets back (Monday) just let on that I know his secret and... that there's no way in hell I'm scrubbing those things off my desk.

I think that's a good plan, no? I dunno. Whaddya all think?

[syd]

Originally Posted by Fledermaus

something small flakes off and I catch it in the palm of my hand. I observe it in the light and find that it is unmistakably a genuine --

SNOT PARTICLE.

OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG!!!!!*BEATING KEYBOARD AND LOLING TO DEATH*

Originally Posted by Fledermaus

On top of that, he's a really nice, normal guy, otherwise. Awesome even. I like him. He's a good man. More importantly, a good roommate. I want this to stop, first of all. And I wanna go on as though nothing's changed.

I'm planning on waiting til he gets back (Monday) just let on that I know his secret and... that there's no way in hell I'm scrubbing those things off my desk.

I think that's a good plan, no? I dunno. Whaddya all think?

AND YA WANT WHAT TO STOP?!?!*BEATING KEYBOARD *YA WANT WHAT TO STOP YA BASTARD?!?!?OMG LOLLLLLLLLLLL!OMG THIS IS THE MOST LOLZ I'VE EVER SEEN!OH MY ASIAN BRO,MY ASIAN BRO...LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL

[Peanut]

JESUS CHRIST! Settle down!

[Ra]

... I'm not going to respond to that one...

Back to the topic at hand, I think that's the best way to go about it, Fledermaus, to be honest. I can't really see any problem with it.

[Kunoichi_Haruko]

Ick. Good thing I had breakfast before reading that, Fled. But yeah, I agree with Ra, your current plan of action sounds reasonable.

[syd]

Originally Posted by Kunoichi_Haruko

Ick. Good thing I had breakfast before reading that, Fled. But yeah, I agree with Ra, your current plan of action sounds reasonable.

your current plan of action sounds reasonable...sounds reasonable...sounds reasonable...reasonable...reasonable...reasonable. ..*echoing*=_-|||||

Spoiler:

[gobo]

Isn't it awesome when people are so concerned with your well-being that they use your furniture for Kleenex? Nasty...

[Peanut]

Originally Posted by syd

your current plan of action sounds reasonable...sounds reasonable...sounds reasonable...reasonable...reasonable...reasonable. ..*echoing*=_-|||||

Spoiler:

WTF are you even talking about anymore?

[syd]

Originally Posted by Peanut

WTF are you even talking about anymore?

I was simpley disagreeing with that point then.Will you play Q&A game with me?Now it's my turn to ask you a Q:Have you ever gotten fatigued for nonstop shooting at your right?

[Cure]

Yo, you just called Fled a bastard for no reason. Then you wonder how you can get unwarned. I hope you get banned. Seriously, I do.

[Peanut]

Originally Posted by syd

Q:Have you ever gotten fatigued for nonstop shooting at your right?

Like....with a gun...or something....?