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Spitfire
10-27-2006, 08:04 PM
Well I'm screwed. In order for me to go to film school I have to pay my way. The grant I got that my entire family was told by the VA was going to pay for everything.

We get to the school and do the paperwork and find out...that the VA won't pay for the Academy Of Arts....they will pay for UC's though but none of them really have half as good of a film program as AOA....This is such a downer. Everyones depressed and my Step Dad feels like a complete jerk. And it's not his fault at all the VA screwed us over.

What sucks the most is I paid 500 to sign up for a dorm, 100 to apply, and 140 to pick classes. I already paid all that and It's non-refundable....One semester is 7 grand and the dorm is 5 grand plus expenses like classroom fees. The VA will send me a check for 800 each month I'm in school which is 4 a semester. It doesn't even begin to cover anything. I'll need most of that money for food and living expenses....

Sorry I had to get that off my chest. Kinda sucks having your dream smashed.

iris
10-27-2006, 08:18 PM
Aw, don't give up. There are ways to finance your education.

Me, I took out tuition loans, and worked at the university. Lots of people do that. I worked almost all the way through school, and it was good because I got to know a lot of the professionals that way.

Have you talked to the Academy's financial aid office about alternatives?

Spitfire
10-27-2006, 08:20 PM
Yeah were going to try that tonight. Cal Grant and the other one. Hopefully it's enough to cover it all >_<

Peanut
10-27-2006, 08:20 PM
Or you can drop out of school and make tons of cash at an easy job like me! School is for suckers!

Voltron
10-27-2006, 08:23 PM
I think it's wonderfully ironic that the only one of us living the American Dream is a Canadian.

Jo Dawn
10-27-2006, 08:36 PM
Heh...

Your dreams aren't smashed, dear... You just have to work hard to get through school. I had one scholarship, but I paid for it all other than that, by working.

Other than that, look into different grants you are eligible for or take out student loans.

愛
10-27-2006, 08:41 PM
You could've posted this in the Emo thread, aka the Cafe. Oh dang, I said it.

But yeah, that really sucks. College is pretty exclusive when it comes to grants and stuff like that. My college is pretty expensive, and I expect to be paying the loans off for a good while.

Spitfire
10-27-2006, 08:42 PM
Well by my dreams being smashed I mean, I worked hard in High School to keep a 3.0 GPA, which was hard because I had screwed up the first 2 years of high school by goofing off. So my last 2 years I worked my ass off to get decent grades so I could have the grant. And now I find out I did that for virtually nothing. I wouldn't have applied to such an expensive school if I knew I wasn't going to have that grant to back it up. My parents don't want me to take out loans so I have to rely on government aid and my parents paying for it.

I could go to another school *Like a UC* but they don't have any good film courses and my parents and me both don't want me to major in something I won't be happy with. I guess we're stubborn yes theres an alternative and a possibility that it can still work out. I'm just still bummed that it didn't work out the way I was lead to believe it would for the past 8 years of my life.

With the kinda job I hope to get from this school though I will hopefully be making good money and I can make it up to them.

iris
10-27-2006, 09:25 PM
I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you thought it would. But it's not a lost cause here.

Your hard work in HS is worth cash right now, because grade records are a factor in who gets financial aid. Someone with a 2.0 would not see the opportunities you have earned yourself by getting higher marks.

I don't know how you think student loans work, but people don't usually end up relying on gov't aid or their parents to pay for it. You pay back the money as you can, when you get your job after college.

Though really, I paid for a lot of mine at the same time as I went to school, so afterward I didn't have as much to pay off. I made like $5000 from part-time work each semester and also took on more work in the summer. That put a huge dent in the bills. I was dirt poor in college... but I was in good company. ;)

I recommend seeing if you can actually get a job or paid internship from the school or someone the school knows... it's a good school right? Don't they have contacts for their students?

Whatever you do, keep asking for more options until you get something. Don't let anyone tell you there's nothing else you can do.

Katie
10-27-2006, 09:26 PM
I agree with JD.

No one helped me with college. I knew as soon as I finished High School that if I wanted to go to college I would have to find a way to finance it. I worked my tail off.

I got scholarships (I wrote 3500 letters my senior year of high school to EVERY organization offering money) I had a full time and a part time job. I worked for the school. (and I went to a private university, not a community or public college. It wasn't cheap.) Things can be done.

Nothing I have ever achieved was just handed to me. I have fought tooth and nail for everything I have.

So what? Things didn't turn out the way you expected. Don't give up and curl into a pity ball...FIGHT!!

Hannah
10-27-2006, 10:01 PM
My daddy's parents didn't pay for him to go to College, and now we're in debt. :C

JameO
10-31-2006, 03:38 PM
Canada is where its at, government pays for most of your education, giving more people the chance to go to school and get a good job, without paying off a debt 10 years later.

Barkworm
10-31-2006, 05:39 PM
Canada is where its at, government pays for most of your education, giving more people the chance to go to school and get a good job, without paying off a debt 10 years later.
Yup, same thing here. Although our conservative party is trying to change this by introducing huge fees...

Dr. Doom
10-31-2006, 05:42 PM
Damned conservatives! -=shakes fist=-

Barkworm
10-31-2006, 05:46 PM
Seriously, if you're a college student here it's the number one party NOT to vote. Luckily I'll be finished with my crap before I have to pay anything.

Dr. Doom
10-31-2006, 05:50 PM
In Russia, conservative votes for you!

Cascadia
11-02-2006, 11:57 PM
Anybody want my life?? I am in a Master's program which costs a ton of money. I do not get any gas money for my travels back and forth between my apartment and my teaching placement. The tuition is very expensive.. Every night, I do not get to bed until 2 AM and I am up at 6 AM. I feel like I am jumping through so many hoops in order to become a teacher. Also, I think that the program that I am is like an endurance test. :roll: :roll:

Voltron
11-03-2006, 12:03 AM
Anybody want my life?? I am in a Master's program which costs a ton of money. I do not get any gas money for my travels back and forth between my apartment and my teaching placement. The tuition is very expensive.. Every night, I do not get to bed until 2 AM and I am up at 6 AM. I feel like I am jumping through so many hoops in order to become a teacher. Also, I think that the program that I am is like an endurance test. :roll: :roll:


I have your life. It's not pretty. Three degrees at once kills the body and soul.

What's the longest you've ever gone without sleep? I think junior year, first semester, I went three days without. Just to type papers about inequality and injustice...

...like I care...

Cascadia
11-03-2006, 12:07 AM
I have done a week without sleep 3 years ago. I have been in college way too long (10th year). I will be done in 9 months if I can survive that long. I think that the program that I am in definitely costs an arm and a leg. Anyone is welcome to PM me and ask me about how much the program costs....this is a 1 year program.

iris
11-03-2006, 06:38 AM
Anybody want my life?? I am in a Master's program which costs a ton of money. I do not get any gas money for my travels back and forth between my apartment and my teaching placement. The tuition is very expensive.. Every night, I do not get to bed until 2 AM and I am up at 6 AM. I feel like I am jumping through so many hoops in order to become a teacher. Also, I think that the program that I am is like an endurance test. :roll: :roll:
I am about to get your life. I will be slave labor like all the other science grad students, but at least they pay my tuition.

Cascadia
11-03-2006, 09:19 AM
:tgrumble: Yep, I am pretty much a slave. Everyday schedule:

up at 6 AM in order to get to my teaching placement, in which I am there until 12:30.
I have class from 1:30-5:00 PM
The rest of the day is studying, studying, and papers
Never in bed until 1 AM.

jeff the cheff
11-03-2006, 12:04 PM
You think your college life is hard? I wake up in the morning around 8-9, go to some classes, come back, nap a little, maybe play some ping pong, go on the internet for a while, watch tv, play some video games maybe, read/study a bit, watch more tv,go to bed, and repeat

Oh and on weekends, its even more difficult. Friday I come back from my class, nap almost all day, take a power shower, hang out with all these friends, go out and drink, using mostly money my parents supply me with, and some from the part-part time job I have, and then sleep for a long time, and on sundays I have to watch like...HOURS of football.

So don't complain about your college lives until you have to live a hectic one like that

Cascadia
11-03-2006, 06:33 PM
sleep...what is sleep? I do not get any...I am in a Master's degree program. That schedule that I put in my post happens everyday. I will complain about my college life if I want to. I have to live to very high expectations because if I allow my GPA to go below 3.0 rather than 2.0 then I am kicked out with no questions asked.

jeff the cheff
11-03-2006, 07:47 PM
I was just kidding by the way...although i really did take a 4 hour nap today. :goofygri:

I need around high gpa too, but it's nowhere near as hard as your stuff.

Cascadia
11-05-2006, 11:59 PM
I am so stressed....I have to teach the atomic theory tomorrow. I hope that I can handle it.

jeff the cheff
11-07-2006, 12:06 PM
I've got 2 exams tmw then one on thursday. Thursday night I will have a huge thirst to quench

Jo Dawn
11-07-2006, 09:37 PM
You think your college life is hard? I wake up in the morning around 8-9, go to some classes, come back, nap a little, maybe play some ping pong, go on the internet for a while, watch tv, play some video games maybe, read/study a bit, watch more tv,go to bed, and repeat


So don't complain about your college lives until you have to live a hectic one like that

You are a true hero, my friend. A man among men. I don't know how you do it. ;) :P

愛
11-07-2006, 09:42 PM
Stressful college life has lead me to craving alcohol almost every night. It's not just the work load, it's the social dysfunction I've been battling ever since this semester started.

Cascadia
11-08-2006, 08:03 PM
Luckily, I do not have any actual exams. At the graduate level, there is no such thing as exams.

Cascadia
12-03-2006, 11:24 PM
:tgrumble: Three more days of this term. But I have 12 assignments due. The hardest one is that I have to come up with a Biology lab and demonstrate in my Science methods class. I have not done too much Biology in several years.

I have my grades and did pretty well....time to relax for 14 days.

Cascadia
12-16-2006, 12:43 AM
Anybody know on how to make the bored blues go away? My quarter is over and I do not have anything to do. I am so used to having things to work on.

Well, it is beginning of a new quarter and I have some items that are due on the first day (tomorrow).