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Dane E5R
11-15-2003, 12:25 AM
What do you cats think of this gawd awful, yet beautiful and irresistable thing that is love? Let's hear it. Oh, and to specify, I'm talkin' about the uh, non-platonic, non-family esque type.

The Defibrillator
11-15-2003, 12:32 AM
DUDE are you like telepathic, cuz I swear I was just thinking about making a thread about the craziness that love is.

EDIT: Oh and as for my answer to the thread topic. Love is fun most of the time. Sometimes it sucks. Other times it takes over my brain. Basically though, love is good. All you need is love, as a famous guy once said.

Dane E5R
11-15-2003, 04:15 AM
::readies harmonica and shades:: You feelin' the pain (or the joy) bro? Lay it on me. 8)

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 04:31 AM
I somewhat don't believe in it. Been burned once to many.

It's almost worth it when it works out though.

Taloniss
11-15-2003, 05:53 AM
Love doesn't truely exsist.

Dane E5R
11-15-2003, 06:15 AM
Man. I sure have been hurt a bunch by the figment of my imagination.

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 06:19 AM
Man. I sure have been hurt a bunch by the figment of my imagination.

Seriously. For something that isn't real, it sure does kick my ass.

That Matt Guy
11-15-2003, 07:19 AM
My one true love: $

Meira-Bates
11-15-2003, 08:02 AM
Love is evil man....EBBBBBBBBBBILLLLLL! Errrr...I dun care for it, it just ends with me in some horrible state afterwards

Storm Wolf
11-15-2003, 08:59 AM
hmmm...what a subject....love....

I would think that as many times as I have been burned that i would have a negative outlook on love....but i think love is a great thing. I'm a hopeless romatice myself....always wanted my white knight to come sweep me off feet and ride off on his nobel steed.

okay so i've read to many romance stories :goofygri: but love is the thing which we all live for....no one truely intends to spend thier lives compleatly alone......right? No matter how many times you get burned the next person you crush on or fall in love with will make you forget all about it for a time, and you will once again devote most of your free time to trying to catch that persons eye.

hehe....look at that....i've been rambling again.... :goofygri:

Mr. Snackpants
11-15-2003, 09:07 AM
Love is a great thing and it DOES exist. Ive gone out with the same girl since 8th grade and Im now a senior in HS.

cqb101
11-15-2003, 09:07 AM
I don't know very much about love......... :(

Anarchistguy
11-15-2003, 09:38 AM
I don't believe in love and I never will. People tend to be superficial these days. They don't go out with you for who you are, they go out with you for your looks.

And advertising uses this concept to make money out of it and to make you buy their crap and make your "mate" believe that if you don't buy their junk, you'll be a cheap bas****.

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 09:45 AM
I don't believe in love and I never will. People tend to be superficial these days. They don't go out with you for who you are, they go out with you for your looks.

And advertising uses this concept to make money out of it and to make you buy their crap and make your "mate" believe that if you don't buy their junk, you'll be a cheap bas****.

Im not so sure about that. I mean, Teenage relationships Yeah they are like that.. But adult ones USUALLY (Keyword, please make a note) don't go that way.

Storm Wolf
11-15-2003, 09:50 AM
I don't believe in love and I never will. People tend to be superficial these days. They don't go out with you for who you are, they go out with you for your looks.

And advertising uses this concept to make money out of it and to make you buy their crap and make your "mate" believe that if you don't buy their junk, you'll be a cheap bas****.

that isn't true for everyone...I know that I'm the kinda girl who dates based on personality...looks aren't that high on my list of things to look for in a mate.... even tho it seems that way I don't think everyone is a shallow Hal...if you get what i'm saying....there are a rare few who love the simple things about thier mate and don't care about store bought crap and novelties....

tho i do agree with you in the way that today a lot of people do tend to be superficial....it's kinda sickning.

Anarchistguy
11-15-2003, 10:05 AM
"kinda sickening" is an understatement, my friend.

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 10:07 AM
"kinda sickening" is an understatement, my friend.

People like that suck. My friend Only wants Britney Spears looking girls, but he kinda looks like the ass end of RhYno.

Anarchistguy
11-15-2003, 10:18 AM
Oh...Did I mention that love is blind, too? More like it got its eyes ripped out. Everyday, I see girls dating jackasses and guys dating bit***s. What the hell is going on today? Is the world coming to and end, already?

Machias Banshee
11-15-2003, 10:23 AM
Love is a splendid thing, Love lifts us up where we belong!

All you need is Love....All you need is Love.....

*gets out of Moulin Rouge Mode*

Well...sadly, there are too many jerks in the world, which makes it so hard to truly find love. I've glanced at love a few rare times. Its kicked and stomped and hated me right back. All the guys I know are either 4$$holes or gay. Even now, I've decided I've got no romance ideas until i'm out of college. I dont need anymore heartbreak...

*sits in a dark corner, drink in hand, some sad harmonica music in the background*

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 10:26 AM
... I play guitar, can I join you Machi-Chan?

Machias Banshee
11-15-2003, 10:29 AM
*rests on the table* Sure....

Storm Wolf
11-15-2003, 10:38 AM
yes...thats terrible that people have to be that way.....so far i haven't found myself in a relationship where the guy actually cared for me :| like you always hear...all the good ones are taken....

*sits alone at a table* Love is rather depressing...but when we find that certain someone who does nothing but lift us up we forget about all the past heartbreak....

*coughs* it's just me i suppose....but no matter how many times i've been rejected...i still have hope that i will eventually find someone who loves me the way i have loved.

I must agree....teen relationships are more often based on looks...but as i've said...I don't think thats right at all...I guess it was the way i was raised or something.

Machias Banshee
11-15-2003, 10:45 AM
*smiles sadly* Its kinda sad, but funny...all us girls on here...hearts set on one maybe two special individuals... who arent even human...

Its a good feeling tho... (www.geocities.com/machias_banshee/Loves.jpg) (drag and Drop)

Anarchistguy
11-15-2003, 11:00 AM
Well, you know what I think of all these bastards and Bit***s:

*destroys them all one by one*

Raven
11-15-2003, 11:45 AM
I hate love, manly because im to shy....ya hard to believe. love sucks.

cqb101
11-15-2003, 11:49 AM
I hate love, manly because im to shy....ya hard to believe. love sucks.

Wow, that's exactly like me........

Mars-Chan
11-15-2003, 02:59 PM
Me too! I'm the girl that is always in the back trying to figure out a way to go out and talk but I'd rather loom in the shadows.

*sits next to TP and Machi at the table* I've been burned one too many times...starting with pre-school and going all the way up to college.... :| It's no fun.

(SAY...Machi....wouldn't this be a good pic to draw.....the three of us at a table talking about our woes? :evilgrin: :P :wink: )

*Rests head on table, with a *bang!*, the cloth of her black mask falling over the edge* *muffled* Ow...love stinks. I'd rather be a free spirit than be chained down to someone....

GK Punk
11-15-2003, 03:01 PM
Got ya beat, just found out the girl I've been with for over 2 years has started seeing someone she met at her college.

**** love indeed.

Voltron
11-15-2003, 03:03 PM
Hahahaha!

Oh man! Talk about terrible!

I'm a nerd who just fell ass backwards into 5 talented, beautiful girls!

As for love: Of course there is love. It just seems like its terrible or non-existant because

1) People believe that sex is the only way to show love.

2) People have become greedy and pompous. It is rare anymore to find someone who isn't out ultimately for personal gain.

3) Men are pigs.

4) A lot of people are paranoid about the state of their relationship. If you haven't taken you're boyfriend/girlfriend out in the past 3 days, people seem to think everything is falling apart and they have to make a big deal about it.

5) Lust is commonly mistaken for Love

6) People never talk about their problems, they just fight about them.

7) People are so afraid of getting hurt and feeling bad, they never let themselves feel good.
Love is a blessing, not a burden. Like everything worthwhile, it takes sacrafice and work to achieve.

InsaneZane
11-15-2003, 03:06 PM
Aw man, yall are gonna make me go preachy on yall....
dont get me started.

Love hurts and love heals.... God is Love

Mars-Chan
11-15-2003, 03:12 PM
Men are rats. Men are fleas on rats. Men are amebas on fleas on rats. The only man a girl can truly depend on is her daddy.
TELL IT LIKE IT IS, FRENCHY!

Love hurts and love heals.... God is Love
:nod: Exactly, Zane.

InsaneZane
11-15-2003, 03:21 PM
Men are rats. Men are fleas on rats. Men are amebas on fleas on rats. The only man a girl can truly depend on is her daddy

Whoa! who the shell said that?!?!
not all of 'em... just the majority..., but dAmn.. that stung!
somebody tell chick that daddy used to be like the rest of 'em... untill he had a kid.

Mars-Chan
11-15-2003, 03:30 PM
:roll: Frenchy from "Grease"....HELLO?! *knocks on her computer screen as if it was a door*

Storm Wolf
11-15-2003, 03:54 PM
Men are rats. Men are fleas on rats. Men are amebas on fleas on rats. The only man a girl can truly depend on is her daddy

*lowers her eyes* too bad thats not always true tho *rest her chin on her folded hands*

cqb101
11-15-2003, 03:57 PM
*sits in the oppostie corner, for me and MP* :(

Silver Turtle
11-15-2003, 04:08 PM
Personally, I prefer to be friends with a guy instead of being boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't really believe in love either.

Mars-Chan
11-15-2003, 04:27 PM
:nod: I'm with you Silver Turtle.

*hums "Misery" by P!nk*

Dane E5R
11-15-2003, 05:27 PM
Men are not all bad.. Look who started this thread, yo! Love is either your best friend or you worst enemy, plain and simple. I've been on both ends.. I'm currently on the latter. But when you feel the good side.. It just makes it feel like everything you go through with the bad side seem worth it, just for the chance to feel the good side again. This girl really ripped my heart out, but no matter what happens, I can't seem to get her to return my heart. No matter what happens between us, we can't seem to stay away from each other. If I don't call her, she'll call me the next day. If she doesn't call me, I'll call her. It's strange, but I think that says a lot.

Blaze DTGG
11-15-2003, 05:38 PM
Whoever said
"Better to have loved and lost. Than never to have loved at all."

Deserves to be skinned alive then dipped in salt and lemon juice. and of course kept alive and concious through the whole process.

When you lose your heart there is no pain in the world greater. Nothing can describe the void inside of you. The emptiness can consume you if you let it.

There is no Greater pain, and no Greater joy than love.

when you love someone and they love you back. there aren't words to describe it. you know when it's true love. because you think of THEM and not yourself. you care for their wants and needs. to long to be with them but can easily be without them as long as you know they are a part of your life. you dont have to spend every waking moment together. but you cherish the time you do have..

when you lose that.. it feels as if you have lost everything.. and nothing in the world can ever bring it back..


time does not heal all wounds.. and some scars will never fade


Blaze DTGG

(might be gone for a while.. deal with it)

Raven
11-15-2003, 06:02 PM
im actully really nice, but I have kinda a creepy quiality thing that turns a lot of girls away, which makes it damn neer impossible for me to get a date!!!
mabey I dont really hate love, but I hate the fact that I cant get the courage up to actulley ask a girl out, which really sucks, any one else like that?

Kali
11-15-2003, 07:46 PM
Ugh. You just HAD to pick THIS subject, didn't you? :P

Well, to be blunt, I honestly don't think I'm capable of it.

Storm Wolf
11-15-2003, 11:41 PM
Whoever said
"Better to have loved and lost. Than never to have loved at all."

Deserves to be skinned alive then dipped in salt and lemon juice. and of course kept alive and concious through the whole process.

When you lose your heart there is no pain in the world greater. Nothing can describe the void inside of you. The emptiness can consume you if you let it.

There is no Greater pain, and no Greater joy than love.

when you love someone and they love you back. there aren't words to describe it. you know when it's true love. because you think of THEM and not yourself. you care for their wants and needs. to long to be with them but can easily be without them as long as you know they are a part of your life. you dont have to spend every waking moment together. but you cherish the time you do have..

when you lose that.. it feels as if you have lost everything.. and nothing in the world can ever bring it back..


time does not heal all wounds.. and some scars will never fade


Blaze DTGG

(might be gone for a while.. deal with it)

*sniffle* that is like the most beautiful thing i have read lately (ok...so i haven't been reading much of late :| ) but seriously that made me wanna cry.....*eyes well up with tears* oh my gosh.............

cqb101
11-16-2003, 11:04 AM
im actully really nice, but I have kinda a creepy quiality thing that turns a lot of girls away, which makes it damn neer impossible for me to get a date!!!
mabey I dont really hate love, but I hate the fact that I cant get the courage up to actulley ask a girl out, which really sucks, any one else like that?

I'm exactly like you, MP......

Reznorite420
11-16-2003, 02:06 PM
Ugh. You just HAD to pick THIS subject, didn't you? :P

Well, to be blunt, I honestly don't think I'm capable of it.Meet me and you will be ;)

Raven
11-16-2003, 02:23 PM
im actully really nice, but I have kinda a creepy quiality thing that turns a lot of girls away, which makes it damn neer impossible for me to get a date!!!
mabey I dont really hate love, but I hate the fact that I cant get the courage up to actulley ask a girl out, which really sucks, any one else like that?

I'm exactly like you, MP......

I dont know if thats such a good thing.

cqb101
11-16-2003, 02:32 PM
im actully really nice, but I have kinda a creepy quiality thing that turns a lot of girls away, which makes it damn neer impossible for me to get a date!!!
mabey I dont really hate love, but I hate the fact that I cant get the courage up to actulley ask a girl out, which really sucks, any one else like that?

I'm exactly like you, MP......

I dont know if thats such a good thing.

Believe me, it isn't....... :(

Silver Turtle
11-16-2003, 02:37 PM
Don't feel bad guys. All the guys i'm friends with think i'm too dark and moody at times. So I can never get a date either.

Raven
11-16-2003, 02:52 PM
im actully really nice, but I have kinda a creepy quiality thing that turns a lot of girls away, which makes it damn neer impossible for me to get a date!!!
mabey I dont really hate love, but I hate the fact that I cant get the courage up to actulley ask a girl out, which really sucks, any one else like that?

I'm exactly like you, MP......

I dont know if thats such a good thing.

Believe me, it isn't....... :(

tell me about, dont you hate that feeling, I would rather take a huge ass test than feel like this.

MTN889
11-16-2003, 03:00 PM
Love is fake.
It is faked.
There is no real love, except the love from god.
What humans call love is like. Because there is always a way it can be destroyed.
And if some of you dont believe in god or dont agree with me, i understand that, just dont flame me.

Reznorite420
11-16-2003, 03:50 PM
And if some of you dont believe in god or dont agree with me, i understand that, just dont flame me.*gets flamethrower ready* ;)

J/K

raphael_is_cool
11-16-2003, 03:56 PM
I don't believe in love but then I don't think I've experienced it (figure that paradox out). I know I can have unconditional love but then you have to ask yourself if it's lust. I'm usually very generous, honest and conscious of other people's feelings. But it seems to freak people out if you can remember a lot about them and they think you're some sort of stalker

Or am I just talking crazy? :-?

impetus
11-16-2003, 04:34 PM
bah, all you pessimists! of course love is real

ladies, just steer clear of guys like me and you'll do alright

GK Punk
11-16-2003, 06:22 PM
No offence to anyone but give me a damn break. It bothers me to hear you people that have never even been on a date or been kissed talking about how "real love dosn't exist".

It's only because you are so young and haven't met anyone yet. I was deeply in love with Jasmine, and I still do love her even though she hurt me so bad. Would I date her again? No. why? There's other people out there.

Is it worth the trouble we go through? Sometimes.

Sorry if I pissed anyone off, but that's just how I feel about it.

JameO
11-16-2003, 06:40 PM
No offence to anyone but give me a damn break. It bothers me to hear you people that have never even been on a date or been kissed talking about how "real love dosn't exist".

It's only because you are so young and haven't met anyone yet. I was deeply in love with Jasmine, and I still do love her even though she hurt me so bad. Would I date her again? No. why? There's other people out there.

Is it worth the trouble we go through? Sometimes.

Sorry if I pissed anyone off, but that's just how I feel about it.

Nah, I know it's real. Well said and exactly how it is. People who think it isn't real haven't been that close or don't want to admit to it.

Mondo J. Gecko
11-16-2003, 10:36 PM
I'm a hopeless Romantic and I believe that Love is a Verb Talk is cheap, I believe that you just know when your in love, but you have to take that risk, to take action for the person you feel this way for, to put your Heart on your sleeve and show them you care. Thats just my opinion......

EZweasel
11-16-2003, 11:04 PM
love is real. but ive only been out with girls i didnt like in the first place...also i wouldnt go out with a realy ugly girl, but thats just me.. as long as they looked normal, but nothing too crazy... normal is the best way to go i think, but i well take me a hot tamali if i have to..

raphael90
11-16-2003, 11:24 PM
I believe in love...I've grown up knowing I was loved. Although I'll adimt I'm not very good at giving love back but I do love my family deep down.
I believe God is love too...just my belief. :)

As for relationships, I've had basically zilch except for one that didn't pan out. I'm kinda the guy who needs to be liked for inner beauty (if I have anything appealing though I don't know :sick: ), I'm not that good looking IMO. Of course, part of the reason for my lack of relationship is that I'm not as outgoing and rather shy. I don't think all people are snakes and out to get you, but some are yes.

The Defibrillator
11-17-2003, 12:33 AM
I think that the number one problem with love/relationships today is that couples need to talk more. I know it sounds silly, but I think that the more you talk with your partner/spouse/whatever the more honest you are with each other. I believe that utter and complete honesty is THE most important thing a lover can give. If one loses interest in the other, he/she should tell them no matter how much it might hurt. Believe me, it's far better that way, than finding out they cheated on you. I think that people hide their emotions far too much. People gots ta be more open IMO.

</sappiness>

Shadow
11-17-2003, 01:04 AM
LOVE


Of course love is real. I truely believe its real, and avalible for everyone. Relationships, dating, all that junk...is all fine and good...it makes you appriciate love when you find it. I have been in love, but sadly have not found true love. I think true love is out there, but hard to find--like searching for the holy grail or something like that.

But, that doesn't mean we should stop the search--even if we don't find true love, there is pleanty of great wonderful love out there.

What I don't get though is this: How come I can never find a date? HUH? Oh well! I used to let it bug me, but now i have decided if it happens it does, and if not....so what---finding a mate isn't everything!

(I thought about putting my two cents in religiously....but nah....maybe I'll post some song lyrics though---we'll see)

JameO
11-17-2003, 07:21 AM
I think that the number one problem with love/relationships today is that couples need to talk more. I know it sounds silly, but I think that the more you talk with your partner/spouse/whatever the more honest you are with each other. I believe that utter and complete honesty is THE most important thing a lover can give. If one loses interest in the other, he/she should tell them no matter how much it might hurt. Believe me, it's far better that way, than finding out they cheated on you. I think that people hide their emotions far too much. People gots ta be more open IMO.

</sappiness>

:thumbsup: Very nice. Well said. Yeah I feel the same way.

Reznorite420
11-17-2003, 08:34 AM
What I don't get though is this: How come I can never find a date? HUH? Oh well! I used to let it bug me, but now i have decided if it happens it does, and if not....so what---finding a mate isn't everything!Sheesh, all you had to do was ASK! ;)

Shadow
11-17-2003, 11:18 AM
next time i am in texas we'll get together.

except....i'm never in tx.


but thanks for the smile!