Haw....
As for anarky, your girl probably gives hints on what she wants but most guys don't seem to *get* hints, they need to be told that YES THIS IS WHAT I WANT and girls usually try to be more subtle... so it is sorta her fault!
It's like we need to drag ya by the ear and point at what we like and say "THAT is what I want" and that's that. Although my hubby' always trying to get me something I don't expect and I'd usually have a short list so now I have to make a larger list to get what I want... but it's never the first thing on my list with a friggin STAR beside it and UNDERLINED!!
Stupid.