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Originally Posted by Coola Yagami
It happens. It's time to discover who you are without her, ya know?
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^best advice so far^
Everyone grieves differently, and mourning the loss of a relationship takes time, like anything else. I've found it's best to use that time to reflect on who you are, and what you really want. This is often the time that a little soul searching will yield the most gratifying and life affirming results. The key in all of it is to try and be honest with yourself.
If it turns out that she is leaving you for someone else, while that hurts like a MF, try to remember that decision isn't about you.
In the meantime, if you feel like being friendly, do it; if not, don't. Just don't try and manipulate the situation by being overly kind or outright cruel. There will be temptations for both, but neither will repair the relationship.