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Old 12-08-2015, 12:16 PM   #101
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True, but if her past relationships are anything to go by, then I'm almost certain she'll come back. It's less hope and more based of past expierences.
Sure, she may come back. But based on everything you've told us it doesn't seem like she'll stay for long. I could be off-base here, but it feels like you still want her to some extent, and if so... If it's gonna be a continuing cycle -- she comes back to you, then leaves you for someone else, then comes back again when it doesn't work out -- you'll just keep getting hurt if you keep yourself available for her and she keeps breaking your heart.

Nobody can tell you what to do but you, but I can say from experience that if you've got an unhealthy pattern like this, leaving that door even slightly open can be dangerous. If you want to really move on, you need to move on entirely.
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Old 12-08-2015, 01:46 PM   #102
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Sure, she may come back. But based on everything you've told us it doesn't seem like she'll stay for long. I could be off-base here, but it feels like you still want her to some extent, and if so... If it's gonna be a continuing cycle -- she comes back to you, then leaves you for someone else, then comes back again when it doesn't work out -- you'll just keep getting hurt if you keep yourself available for her and she keeps breaking your heart.

Nobody can tell you what to do but you, but I can say from experience that if you've got an unhealthy pattern like this, leaving that door even slightly open can be dangerous. If you want to really move on, you need to move on entirely.
While do still want her some extent, I'm not going to put up bullsh*t anymore. So if she does indeed come back around, then I'm going to handle it much better and much more logically.
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Old 12-08-2015, 02:47 PM   #103
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Frankly, I will hold some hope. But not enough to prevent me from improving my emotional state.
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Old 12-08-2015, 09:16 PM   #104
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Thing is, she has never disliked me chasing her. She loves it. Because to her, it's a game. It's not normal to do. I've always thought of her feelings first, but she also should think of mine sometimes. I don't see it as a prize or as a battle. She's now saying that she would date me now that I've left. Thing with her, is that she only got annoyed with me when I called her out for her bullshi*t. Like Leo said with his friend, it all comes down to looks with her.

As you've said, you've only ever been rejected once and have more often times been the rejecter. I have never done any of the above things you mentioned to her. Nor has she ever said or even implied that she disliked what I was doing. She loved it, because every other guy she's gone out with is an asshole, whereas I'm more of a romantic. Hell, even her friends still want me to date her, for both my sake and hers.
Not trying to imply you ever did those things to her. That is simply what I experienced and your situation struck a personal nerve with me.

This particular person might like being chased after, but I assure you most will not.
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Old 12-08-2015, 09:43 PM   #105
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Not trying to imply you ever did those things to her. That is simply what I experienced and your situation struck a personal nerve with me.

This particular person might like being chased after, but I assure you most will not.
Which I know. The way you just came across seemed very hostile. Sorry bout that.
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Old 12-08-2015, 10:06 PM   #106
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Which I know. The way you just came across seemed very hostile. Sorry bout that.
No, the hostility was intended, but it wasn't necessarily directed at you. I was just angry because I was reminded of the scenario in general.

****ing prick tried to get me to friend him on Skype AND Facebook earlier this year, too. It's like this **** never ends.
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Old 12-08-2015, 10:19 PM   #107
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No, the hostility was intended, but it wasn't necessarily directed at you. I was just angry because I was reminded of the scenario in general.

****ing prick tried to get me to friend him on Skype AND Facebook earlier this year, too. It's like this **** never ends.
Jeez, I'm sorry to here that. I've actually unfriended her on all sites.
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Old 12-08-2015, 10:22 PM   #108
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Hey, good though. Your situation is definitely way different and you're way more mature than that asshole ever was.
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Old 12-09-2015, 09:55 AM   #109
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Hey, good though. Your situation is definitely way different and you're way more mature than that asshole ever was.
Well thank you. I'm just worried about what to do now because she tried to friend me on FB again the other day.
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Old 12-09-2015, 10:08 AM   #110
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Well thank you. I'm just worried about what to do now because she tried to friend me on FB again the other day.
What to do? Send her a PM message consisting of four letters:

A "C", an "N", a "T", and I'll let you fill in the missing vowel.
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Old 12-09-2015, 10:17 AM   #111
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Block the bitch. That oughtta get the point across.
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Old 12-09-2015, 11:20 AM   #112
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Yeah, just do as I did to the prick from school that tried to add me, just ignore and go on with your life.

Sending a message won't do any good, it's still giving her a form of attention. Outright ignoring her will do you better.
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Old 12-09-2015, 08:26 PM   #113
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I'm going to completely cut this person out of my life. Because even if she wants me back now, she should've when she could've. If she contacts me I'll be blunt and honest as to what I want and if she rejects me again, so f*cking be it. I don't need to put up with that sh!t. I have my own, much more important, life to live which she need not be a part of. So if she does start trying to get me back, unless she agrees to my terms for once, then im absolutely done with her and that other a**hole.
Good for you, dude. I wish I had that much common sense in my teen years. But I wouldn't stuck my nose up at her in public (or even in private for that matter). That could open up a major can of worms. If you happen to run into her at any point in time, just be polite. wish her well and promptly say "Gotta go." then proceed to haul @$$ in the opposite direction of wherever she's heading.
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Old 12-09-2015, 08:54 PM   #114
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Good for you, dude. I wish I had that much common sense in my teen years. But I wouldn't stuck my nose up at her in public (or even in private for that matter). That could open up a major can of worms. If you happen to run into her at any point in time, just be polite. wish her well and promptly say "Gotta go." then proceed to haul @$$ in the opposite direction of wherever she's heading.
I will take that advice if I ever see her again. But if she messages me and says she wants me back like she's been saying at school, then I'll tell her what I want and leave it up to her to make her decision.
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Old 12-10-2015, 12:38 PM   #115
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Okay, who added the tags?
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Old 12-11-2015, 02:43 AM   #116
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I dunno, someone with a vendetta against Cubed apparently. This is like the 3rd time I've seen Cubed tags in a thread.
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Old 12-11-2015, 02:52 AM   #117
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It happens way more often than that.
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Old 12-11-2015, 08:37 AM   #118
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Okay, who added the tags?
Wow, those are pretty harsh... why is that in this thread? I don't think Cubed has even said anything on this thread.
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Old 12-11-2015, 07:16 PM   #119
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^^ Right?
That's just in really bad taste.
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