Err... Help with girls, somebody?

[Sparvid]

Short version: I meet this girl on net. Likes her very much. Have been talking to her fooor... about 1,5 year now, passing through several kinds of relationships; very close, to very far, to everything in between, and so on...

And now she meets this boy she likes irl. Which of course is nothing wrong from her side. I certainly don't blame her, but unfortunaly I'm the type of person who get jealous reeeally easy, (and she's aware of that, and actually tries to talk about him as little as possible, for my sake). The last thing I want is to stop talking to her completely! And, as I said, she hasn't done anything wrong in this situation; of course she prefers someone who she can meet every day, who wouldn't? But has anybody got a tip for me on how to not feel so depressed so often? (which is magnified by the knowledge that I don't "have the right" to be so jealous, being "wrong" and all...)

[Donatello007]

You could meet someone else to help ease the pain. Either that or if you have a best friend that is a girl you could talk to her. (Girls are usually good at this kind of stuff)

[Mars-Chan]

:nod: I agree, Don. I have a ton of friends who are guys and they always come to me if they have problems.

[Donatello007]

Yea there is this girl at my school who i am so tight with people call us brother and sister and i always go to her with problems. And she will ask me for advice on stuff like how to impress a certain guy and all that junk.

[Mars-Chan]

See, Sparvid? All you have to do is be friends with a girl and she will help you with ANYTHING.

[CookSux]

Just block her, and get a life :) Haha not to be mean or anything, but sometimes it helps to get into a relationship where you can at least see someone in person every so often.

[Raven]

I guess all I cann say is think of her as a friend now, I remeber see this on a show, almost the same problem, this guy meets a girl on the net, he likes her, she dosent, he wants to meet her, she wants her old boyfriend back.
she takes a train to old boyfriend, but the dude rents the whole train (rish man) than tells her his feelings, she rejects him, and tells him there only friends.
so I dont know how that really helps, but mabey it does some how?

[damnhooligan]

I'd suggest spending a good ol' fashioned night on the town, or something of the equvilant. While it certainly won't solve any problems, it may help put things into perspective.

If I've learned nothing else, it's that no one person can make you happy, short of yourself. Go out, live, experience, and go after what you want. Unfortunately, as easy as it is to sit around and wait for something or someone to come to us, it rarely happens.

Mind you, that's no license to be reckless :wink: All things in moderation, mate! Best of luck.

[kyabetsu]

yup. they covered it:

1) be nice to her but give'er her space

2) find something/someone else to take your time and make you happy b/c you don't need to be dwellin on stuff that gets you down.

3) talk about it if you gotta, but that ALSO leads ta thinkin' about it ... so just find something totally NON-THAT-GIRL related and have some fun.


the simplest stuff's the hardest stuff ta do, so don't get discouraged if all that seems too much to hope for at first. just day ta day. moment ta moment. livin' a string of pleasent distractions is really the only way to avoid the terminal blues.

[Mars-Chan]

Kya...*bows*...good way of wording it. :D

[Sparvid]

Thanks everybody! :)

Now if I only could find some money under a rock so I actually could do a night on the town :ohwell: And unfortunaly I don't have many to talk with right now, as most of my friend I spent the summer with have moved away for school & stuff (one lives in England right now!)

[JameO]

Yeah as most people say find a irl women you could talk to and relate too. And for sure go out on a wonderful gander of the town. Make sure to send the tab to another table. :lol:

[Voltron]

Spar, you live in Sweden. From what I understand you have women on tap.

[Brodie]

Yeah, can't you just go get a new one at the store? Here's what you do. Go to the grocery store, get a cart, bump into a Hottie's cart, strike up a convo, and start talking and walking, snag her number and dial the digits later that night.

I also agree with Cook, block the other one.

[Dinny]

Or you could get a friend who owes you to walk up 2 a girl that you like but start acting like a jerk, then just step in and start talking. Thats how I got my girlfriend. :wink:

[damnhooligan]

Or you could get a friend who owes you to walk up 2 a girl that you like but start acting like a jerk, then just step in and start talking. Thats how I got my girlfriend. :wink:

Whoa, sneaky. Does your girlfriend know that story? If not, don't f'ing tell her... ever.

[Brodie]

hahaha, that's Funny. "Don't tell her.......ever...."

[Donatello007]

Cuz if you did............................................... ...........................
Don't worry, we would all show up for the funeral....

[JameO]

Cuz if you did............................................... ...........................
Don't worry, we would all show up for the funeral....

I don't know man. I am on a tight schedule here. When will the date be? I don't think I will be able to make it. :lol:

[Dinny]

Ill make sure to tell her some day your all free :)