That's pretty much how I am too.(although I do at times have a tough attitude and the ass-kicking ability to back it up). My favourite thing to do is drink tea. I also enjoy antiques. I hate how girls keep saying they want guys like us, but all they ever date are creeps.
My deal is that I'm from a long line of smartass tough-guys but somehow I turned out sensitive and feminine. So I'm basically a feminine tough-guy. I'm a weird combination, aren't I?

Same here, actually. People who are really close to me don't fear me, but everyone else seems to. (I have been told I am very intimadting, I have no Idea if it's true or not)

:lol:
It's true though, I have been there many times.

"Oh you like art?"
"yeah"
"You're a musician?"
"Yes, I am"
"Oh that's interesting.. oooh That guy looks like he might kick my ass! See ya later!!"
"damn!"

Once again, me too.. I own kittie ears for Buddah's sake

I have bunny ears! And nobody laughs because they've seen me in action when I'm pissed off. :wink:

hehe yeah that's how I can pull it off, I wear them out to bars sometimes... the ladies love it. Untill they see an jerk-ass guy that is :lol:

Know the feeling.

:-? You own cat ears?

A set of fake Cat ears worn on the head. Ever see the Josie and the Pussycats movie?

Hell no I have never seen that. But I know what you are talking about.

You wanna hear something Ironic GK?
For several years I was intentionally celebate, and I couldn't get the girls away from me! Then when I finally decided I was ready to date, they all changed their minds!

My SN didn't come from no-where ^^

Yeah, I bought them for a Rock-Star Cat haloween costume, and became attached to them. I don't wear them to often, but sometimes just around people who think it's to "feminine" For a guy to wear.

:lol:
Ain't that always how it is?

Feminine? I think strange is the word. No girl in her right mind would wear cat ears.

It makes life frustrating. I hope one of the girls here reads these posts and tells us what's so great about jerks.

I see plenty of girls (and a few guys) in cat ears. I think Girls with cat ears are sexy!

I've known plenty who have actually, they were them as Hair bands, ya know to pull there hair out of their faces. (maybe it's a california thing?)

I don't know were you go, but I have never seen anyone wearing them.

You live in CA GK? COOL! My best friend Sarah will soon be going to college there, and I'm trying to get there too because I've heard I'd fit right in there (such places are rare). Also that's where the entertainment industry is housed. And, there are plenty of sushi bars, and surfers, and Hippies!

Oh yeah, CA is the place to be for good Japanese food ^^
(Especially San Jose and San Fransico, I go there often just for the food heh)

Matt:

Well, just because you haven't seen people wearing them, dosn't mean they don't.

I cook my own Japanese food everyday. I'm quite skilled with sushi-preparation. And, I make excellent Miso-shiru with potatos! My father loves it when I make a Teriyaki grilled fish. I'd still love to live within walking distance to a sushi bar though. Or a ramen stand.

Insert Joke Here.

I remember my japanese teacher made fried noodles one day for the class. I tell ya, that sh*t is the way to my heart.

Yeah what's up with the girls and the jerks?
girl: OMG you're so cute and kind! You want a serious relationship? You don't want to just use me and run away? You're perfect!
me: Yes...Yes I am.
jerk: Hey I need lovin'!
girl: I'll give it to you!
jerk: I'm done.
*Jerk walks away*
girl: What a jerk. I'll never speak to him again.
jerk: I want more.
girl: SURE!

That's about how it goes.

What kind of girls are all of you trying to get with? I have had plenty success with girls just by being myself.

Now what does that say about you? Kidding!

Anyway, I like the "Sweet and innocent" type, but if they're also a little rebelious that's OK too. Weird sense of humor is a good thing, as is creativity.
But, for some reason they like abusive assholes, even though they never admit it.

Hey there is nothing wrong with white trash! :P

:lol:

I'm not saying I don't get my share of the ladies, but there are quite a few who are a little weird in the head when it comes to saying they like this type of guy and then end up dating this type of guy. You know? They say they like guys who are sensitive and stuff and then go for guys who have nothing but ego and a hate for anything remotely sensitive. If it doesn't involve swearing, bleeding, or naked chicks, to them, it's gay.

Ain't that the truth.

Indeed.

Since we've gone completely off topic in this thread I'm going to ask a Mod. to move this conversation for us. I'll try to ask a female Mod. so maybe she could answer some of our questions for us about why women are the way they are.

Actually, I never said "I've had no girlfriends because of this" I've had my fair share, I just mean sometimes when you go out and meet a girl you could real see yourself with, the "a-hole" effect kics in

Well, I've never had a girlfriend. so, I guess I've had worse luck than either of you. :( :lol:

Well hey sometimes it's hard to find someone

Well, nothing in my life has ever been normal, so why should this? :lol:

:lol:
Yeah, I know that feeling too :lol:

You could have just asked me to split it! I feel so useless! :cry: ...............................I'm over it. :D

Hey Mikey, could you move the thread for us :D
j/k

It just hurts so much when a girl chooses a jerk over you. It's not so bad when she picks a nice-guy over you. That's only happened once. the girl's name was Kim. She was tougher than most of the girls I go for anyway. It's when the really fragile-hearted girls prefer complete Dillweeds over you when you really feel bad.

Why you gots to be foolin' on me yo?
I've never actually had a girl choose anyone over me, but I've had friends (of the female gender) who've gone for real jerks instead of genuine nice guys who I'm sure would treat them right. That's what makes me angry.

For one thing, I forgot you were a Mod. Sorry.