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aliena 05-11-2015 06:41 PM

Does anyone hide their love for TMNT?
 
I was just reading some other fans on another site who were all stating that they hide their fandom from their friends and family members. I get a feeling that many of the fans were in their teens and definitely did not want any of their fellow schoolmates finding out.

One person said he had been hiding his obsession for 8 years! He was only found out when his brother snooped and found his stash of artwork.

I don't get why TMNT out of all things gets the most ridicule. I had to hide my love for the Turtles when I was a kid and it took a long time before I told my husband I was obsessed with them. He accepted my love for them, but still thinks it's weird of me.

Now I just don't care. I let people tease and make fun of me for watching a "kids show". Those who are not fans just don't get it. It's hard to explain it to them. My mother, who looks for specific turtle items for me, asked me one day why I liked them so much. She just didn't understand.

I'm just curious as to how many people on here hide it from friends and family members, or did hide it and now no longer do.

Shark_Blade 05-11-2015 06:55 PM

Nope but I don't like scream it at the top of the world.

My friends can hear my tphone ringtone. My iPad lock screen and background are Mikey and Leo from Out of the Shadows.

MsMarvelDuckie 05-11-2015 06:59 PM

I used to, for the most part, mostly because by the time I became a fan, I was considered "too old" for them. In high school, no one knew I would come home ant watch it after school as eagerly as any little kid, and my dad used to tease me horribly about them, to the point that I felt like he thought I was immature or dumb for liking them. Then I drifted out of it for several years, until I discovered a love of comics, and later my love for the TMNT through that. Now I don't really care who knows, and when I go to the store, if I buy something turtle-related, I don't even mind if someone sees it. I just smile and tell them I'm a fan.

Wolfie65 05-11-2015 07:27 PM

I feel sorry for those people who consider themselves (or others) 'too old' for what they see as 'kid's stuff'. I have lots of Turtle shirts - and a couple of hats - and wear them with pleasure. I even have a Spongebob shirt, it's VERY bright yellow. They work great on weeding out the un-fun types.

Autbot_Benz 05-11-2015 07:47 PM

I don't I always post pics of new figures and stuff related to my fandoms on facebook. My parents are cool with it so its good.

IndigoErth 05-11-2015 07:48 PM

Well, I've laid out my own story previously in an old thread or two, but to make it short I was a huge fan until about mid teens. At that point I was pretty much forced (and unfortunately shamed) into giving them up beyond my own choice. Different times I suppose...first generation fan problems, no older fans or internet to vouch for the Turtles not being "just a kids thing."

Which I'm sure is exactly why it's hidden and ridiculed because there is still that lingering unfair stigma on them. Not as bad as it once was, but clearly still there. If the new movies do ANY good for the Turtles at all, I hope they at least help ease that.

Fast forward to 2013 I came across the Nick show and decided to give it a chance. It hooked me. :D But I did keep it to myself up until last summer.

I don't really talk about it much offline and I tend to avoid saying much, mostly because I feel a bit awkward about it, primarily because my mother had spent the rest of my years now and then teasing me about the fact that I had been into it. (Seriously, if you're purposely teasing someone about something that was more than half a lifetime ago, that is just really ignorant.) I have thrown that old embarrassment away (I'm sorry, Turtles, for ever even feeling that way. :(), but hard not to remain cautious thanks to those years.

That aside, I just don't really have any family or IRL friends that share the interest, but my immediate family knows and are cool with it. (Including my mother, which surprises me. Having her finally stfu over the teasing has been quite nice.) I haven't said anything to friends about it, though my FB avatar and cover photo are Leo related, but no one has asked or said anything and that's fine with me. I don't really care if people know, I just don't want any judgement.

If anyone ever does try to say anything negative, I think I'm at least much more prepared at this age now to defend the Turtles as for how awesome they are and worthy of being a fan of. Everyone has their stuff they're into - unless someone is so boring that they have nothing - so they dare not judge. The day I'm forced to give them up again (never), is the day they have to give up the stuff they're into as well.

TigerClaw 05-11-2015 08:03 PM

Its probably due to being older, I'm sure there are fans who are hiding it, and they are in there 40s.

ToTheNines 05-11-2015 08:30 PM

All of my family and friends know the extent of my mania lol.

ImmaAxolotl 05-11-2015 08:36 PM

I used to hide it, but I've become more open with it. I'm proud to be TMNT fan! :tsmile:

CyberCubed 05-11-2015 08:49 PM

Considering TMNT is now retro enough to be cool, why would anyone think otherwise? In case you people haven't noticed, "geek culture" is in. The popularity of the Marvel movies and Batman in particular makes it popular in the mainstream.

This isn't like the 80's or 90's where you would be called a nerd or dweeb for like superheroes/comics as an adult.

Toitlefan 05-11-2015 09:03 PM

I hide it to an extent. Not because I am ashamed but more because I know very few people who have the same persistent interest. I've converted a couple people (like my girlfriend) but they are only casual fans.

I think I've only met one other person who is into it as much as I am and it was through this forum. One of the reasons I joined is so I can geek out about turtles and not get a wtf? look. I rarely bring the subject up and when someone else does I don't even say much because I know the conversation will go nowhere. I guess that makes me a TMNT snob. I know I'm not the only one, and certainly not the worst offender :tlol:

Cipher 05-11-2015 09:09 PM

I'll tell anyone to check out the Mirage comics if conversation goes in that direction. The hardcovers are sitting right on my bookshelf, right in guests' line of sight when they walk in (that bit's not intentional; it's just where the bookshelf fit).

So, no, I don't hide it. But I also don't stand by parts of the franchise I find embarrassing, ya know?

That's how I am with most of my "fandoms." If I really like something, I can probably justify it in a way that anyone could respect.

Powder 05-11-2015 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Cipher (Post 1457540)
If I really like something, I can probably justify it in a way that anyone could respect.

Perfectly worded. Same for me.

MsMarvelDuckie 05-11-2015 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IndigoErth (Post 1457497)
I was a huge fan until about mid teens. At that point I was pretty much forced (and unfortunately shamed) into giving them up beyond my own choice. Different times I suppose...first generation fan problems, no older fans or internet to vouch for the Turtles not being "just a kids thing."

Which I'm sure is exactly why it's hidden and ridiculed because there is still that lingering unfair stigma on them. Not as bad as it once was, but clearly still there. If the new movies do ANY good for the Turtles at all, I hope they at least help ease that.

I don't really talk about it much offline and I tend to avoid saying much, mostly because I feel a bit awkward about it, primarily because my mother had spent the rest of my years now and then teasing me about the fact that I had been into it. (Seriously, if you're purposely teasing someone about something that was more than half a lifetime ago, that is just really ignorant.) I have thrown that old embarrassment away (I'm sorry, Turtles, for ever even feeling that way. :(), but hard not to remain cautious thanks to those years.

That aside, I just don't really have any family or IRL friends that share the interest, but my immediate family knows and are cool with it. (Including my mother, which surprises me. Having her finally stfu over the teasing has been quite nice.) I haven't said anything to friends about it, though my FB avatar and cover photo are Leo related, but no one has asked or said anything and that's fine with me. I don't really care if people know, I just don't want any judgement.

If anyone ever does try to say anything negative, I think I'm at least much more prepared at this age now to defend the Turtles as for how awesome they are and worthy of being a fan of. Everyone has their stuff they're into - unless someone is so boring that they have nothing - so they dare not judge. The day I'm forced to give them up again (never), is the day they have to give up the stuff they're into as well.


Yup, it was pretty much the same for me, though I was a bit older. I didn't even start getting into it until my early teens, so once high school started, I pretty much HAD to keep it quiet. One or two people read my first fic (the one that eventually evolved into Love Is Shell) and thought it was cool, but other than that, I didn't even want anyone to know I was a fan, much less that I had written a story about them.

But now, I really don't care who knows, because I'm old enough and secure enough in my own identity to own it. I had a cashier at Wal-Mart smile while she was ringing up the three TMNT figures I got for myself with some birthday-money last year, and she said "I guess someone is going to be really happy." I said, "yeah- me!" And explained they were for my collection because I was a fan. And it felt good to have her chuckle over that and add that she grew up watching the cartoons too.

Leo656 05-11-2015 09:59 PM

We do this one a lot, don't we? :lol: S'all good.

I never went through a phase where the stuff I liked was "uncool". Most of my friends did but I always thought it was pretty pathetic. I knew for a fact they were lying about how suddenly, the stuff they liked last summer was totally "lame" and "for kids", they just wanted to look "cool" to the same kids they never got along with to begin with. Putting on an act for people just to get them to like you is retarded, even if it's family and not friends. You should never put on airs; it's vulgar.

If you have to be a different person to get people to give you the time of day, they're not your friends and nothing they say should mean anything to you. End of story.

pennydreadful 05-11-2015 10:07 PM

Nah, I don't hide it. There are so many things about me that people could hang sh*t on me for, being a TMNT geek is the least of my worries. :tlol:

IndigoErth 05-11-2015 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by MsMarvelDuckie (Post 1457553)
But now, I really don't care who knows, because I'm old enough and secure enough in my own identity to own it. I had a cashier at Wal-Mart smile while she was ringing up the three TMNT figures I got for myself with some birthday-money last year, and she said "I guess someone is going to be really happy." I said, "yeah- me!" And explained they were for my collection because I was a fan. And it felt good to have her chuckle over that and add that she grew up watching the cartoons too.

I'd have just been like "Yup, very." Heh. :tlol:

Can't say I've had any comment as of yet. Only slightly awkward one was Build-A-Bear because they inevitably ask who it's for when they write the name on the tag.

But the woman in there told me they'd already had a couple guys in their 20s getting theirs an hour before when the place opened (first day they were selling the TMNT plushies). I think they knew they were probably going to get plenty of adult fans, not just the kids. :tsmile: Esp that first day.

CyberCubed 05-11-2015 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ToTheNines (Post 1457521)
To an extent. I'm a tower worker so it's kind of a macho, toughguy environment.

You actually climb stuff like this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2A_h2AjJaMw

Looks dangerous as hell.

Mellie 05-11-2015 11:07 PM

From my family, nope. They all love TMNT.

I don't usually show my Turtle love in public. I'm pretty introverted, so I try my best to go unnoticed. Ninja mode is always on. :shifty:

DarkFell 05-12-2015 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mellie (Post 1457587)
From my family, nope. They all love TMNT.

I don't usually show my Turtle love in public. I'm pretty introverted, so I try my best to go unnoticed. Ninja mode is always on. :shifty:

And I'm the exact opposite. I don't really talk to my family about anything TMNT, but do I care if I wear a TMNT themed shirt in public?
http://media.giphy.com/media/HZkdvSifeS2xG/giphy.gif
I'm quite comfortable in my nerd ways. :P

DevilSpooky 05-12-2015 01:49 AM

Not at all, my home is filled with toys and posters on every division so when friends and family stop by there's no hiding it from them, not only that but I have no problem being what I am, my nickname at work is "geek" and I'm proud of it, my 31st birthday cake was Raphael and my Xmas presents from my girlfriend for the past 2 years has been Turtle related, and I opend them up in front of my inlaws like a 5 year old, my nephew loves to bring his friend to my home to show up his "cool uncle" and that brings a tear to my eyes so that's enough for me, I don't care what people think of me, that's enough to make me happy.

ProactiveMan 05-12-2015 03:29 AM

I don't hide it. I post Turtles drawings on BookFace sometimes, and I talk about them at work n' stuff. I probably wouldn't casually mention it to a VP at head office or anything, but if they asked I wouldn't deny my love.

I wear a TMNT t-shirt when I'm shopping sometimes, and nobody points an laughs or anything, but I am 6'4" with a bad case of resting bitch face, so people don't give me too much grief in general.

ShelleyQuick 05-12-2015 07:08 AM

NOPE I HIDE NOTHING!. I shout it from the roof tops. My house is a turtle fortress, my desk at work is a tmnt shrine and car looks like a 10 year old drives it. I love TMNT I want every one to know.

TheBlueTurtle1 05-12-2015 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ProactiveMan (Post 1457613)
I don't hide it. I post Turtles drawings on BookFace sometimes, and I talk about them at work n' stuff. I probably wouldn't casually mention it to a VP at head office or anything, but if they asked I wouldn't deny my love.

I wear a TMNT t-shirt when I'm shopping sometimes, and nobody points an laughs or anything, but I am 6'4" with a bad case of resting bitch face, so people don't give me too much grief in general.

Do you mean facebook?:lol:

Shark_Blade 05-12-2015 07:33 AM

Hiding your love is like holding your fart. It pains you to keep it inside, you should let it loose and be wild.

Danetello 05-12-2015 07:55 AM

I was at the doctor yesterday and was wearing one of my many TMNT t-shirts. The nurse came in and was like, "My [grown up] son still loves TMNT too!" and we proceeded to have a conversation about the TMNT while she got me set up for the doctor. So no, I don't hide it and with reactions like that, why would I?!

IndigoErth 05-12-2015 11:53 AM

I do look forward to society hopefully continuing to grow in it's acceptance of the Turtles being a grown up thing, too. Props to those who are loud and proud about it as you are undoubtedly part of the front line in that push.

Not that I'm not proud... just not a 'loud' one in much of anything, TMNT or otherwise.

aliena 05-12-2015 03:25 PM

I made this very cool turtle outfit for halloween to wear to a trunk or treat. It had a shell and everything. I even made special shoes with the turtles on them and my friends talked me out of wearing it.

They said I really looked ridiculous and so I chickened out and I wore it to hand out candy at home instead. I had a lot of people recognize that I was Raphael due to the red mask.

Anyway, then I see that Rihanna and her friends went as the turtles, she was Raph too. Although, her costume was way cooler than I had, and she had green skin. Money and all behind it. I wish I had seen her first, because it would have restored my geekdom to wear it.

As for being embarrassed myself, my car is named Metalhead since it reminds me of him. And I have a full set of TMNT minimates on my desk at work.

slashpieturtlemix 05-12-2015 03:40 PM

I know I loved tmnt as a kid. It is actually what got me into drawing and that got me into art. My father won't admit it but he liked tmnt as much as me. He would pick up a toy for me when he left the country on leaved (military). Now I rediscovered my love for them when I started an online store and someone sold me a bunch. It dropped off my radar and its love is back in full swing. Normally when someone makes fun of me for my love, I point out that your average man loves a sport where men wear tight tight pants and hug each other to the ground for amusement. Pretty sure mine is less... hilarious lol

Also I don't hide it. My buddies think its awesome that I got a little retro museum in my apartment lol

ToTheNines 05-12-2015 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberCubed (Post 1457577)
You actually climb stuff like this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2A_h2AjJaMw

Looks dangerous as hell.

That one's especially tall, but yes, stuff like that.

TheSkeletonMan939 05-12-2015 04:49 PM

I don't think I've ever bothered to tell anyone that I'm a turtles fan.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shark_Blade (Post 1457653)
Hiding your love is like holding your fart. It pains you to keep it inside, you should let it loose and be wild.

That's it? You just fart as loud as you can even if there are other people in the room?

Shark_Blade 05-12-2015 06:04 PM

If you're shameless, why not? :P

TheSkeletonMan939 05-12-2015 06:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shark_Blade (Post 1457898)
If you're shameless, why not? :P

Now I know why you defend the 2014 film so vigorously. :P

IndigoErth 05-12-2015 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSkeletonMan939 (Post 1457875)
That's it? You just fart as loud as you can even if there are other people in the room?

:tlol::lol:

I suppose in a way it works...trying to discuss any type of fandom stuff with non-fans might be like trying to discuss your farts with people who have no interest in hearing about them. :lol: They just don't understand why your farts are great.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ToTheNines (Post 1457869)
That one's especially tall, but yes, stuff like that.

:teek: Well that surely takes some serious Turtle Power. I think my knees would freeze at about, uh, ten feet up, or less. lol

Jester 05-12-2015 06:14 PM

That'd be like me taking off my wedding ring....

Shark_Blade 05-12-2015 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSkeletonMan939 (Post 1457901)
Now I know why you defend the 2014 film so vigorously. :P

That doesn't even make sense.. it applies to just about anything, everything.

Just love what you love man. Ride on. :tcool:

*drove off on a superbike into the sunset*

Warhorse 05-12-2015 06:50 PM

Nope. I don't hide anything I love/like, be it the Turtles, Avengers or Transformers, to Madonna, CCR or the Beatles. Heck, I've seen people give me weird looks when I tell them that I'm a fan of Megan Fox, Emma Watson, Chloe Grace Moretz, Zac Efron and Logan Lerman. But, I don't care, I just like them and think they do a good enough job in their roles.

Shark_Blade 05-12-2015 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Warhorse (Post 1457923)
Megan Fox, Emma Watson, Chloe Grace Moretz, Zac Efron and Logan Lerman

OMGOSH YES *high fives* :D

Powder 05-12-2015 07:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheSkeletonMan939 (Post 1457901)
Now I know why you defend the 2014 film so vigorously. :P

http://i57.tinypic.com/20zsq2o.gif

Shark_Blade 05-12-2015 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Powder (Post 1457963)

I don't get burn. I'm on fire.

http://i.imgur.com/iTzd1KC.jpg

2014 movie rules. :tcool: Ain't no hiding my love fo tmnt.

http://i.imgur.com/oaVommB.jpg


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