| IndigoErth |
09-14-2024 01:08 PM |
Been wishing it was more restrictive for my nephew, but unfortunately, I have no say there.
He's already gotten the idea that people getting likes and followers online is somehow impressive or important. :roll: He doesn't have his own phone, but a tablet (for games and videos), uses a parent's phone (or old one) also for games/videos, and last Christmas, at age 7, got a whole gaming PC system and corner set up. (Wtf do you even get him now? A car?) Some of this I blame on the influence of some kid that was in his class either last year or the year before (we're talking 1st or 2nd grade) who was a "gamer" and his parents let him have his own YouTube channel, and my nephew got it in his head from that kid and people's gaming videos online that he wants that, too.. :roll: They are going to have some real problems with that classmate (former, I hope) in coming years, guaranteed, and don't want my nephew being a similar case... I'm not against him likening the games (it's mostly Roblox right now), but it's been a bit much.
I wish I had good opportunities to try to impart that this superficial nonsense on social media, etc and what strangers think of you does not matter at all. It's just messing up too many young people these days valuing that pointless crap too much. Unfortunately, not only is he spoiled to a large degree, getting his way too much, he's also too stubborn, "MY way," and probably won't hear it anyhow.
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I can understand a society or its government wanting to try to set restrictions on things that are covertly risky, like social media, that sits there and looks harmless at face value. But how you really implement that, good luck. I mean, FB and others always had an age limit of 13 or so already, or used to, but there's no way of stopping anyone from getting around that. It's the parent's job to have control of what their kids are up to.
Can we limit Boomer use of it while we're at it. Seeing too much increased senior brain rot, esp memory issues, that may not all be aging and partly associated with hours and hours of scrolling BS on FB, etc. Of course, just like the kid, suggestions that it has a negative impact and maybe put it down sometimes won't be heard.
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