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Originally Posted by Coola Yagami
You forget the part where it's always your fault.
If you cheat on your wife, it's obviously your fault, but if she cheats on you.... it's also somehow your fault too.
People always say the man needs to man up so the wife doesn't stray.... don't really heard too much about women needing to woman up so their guys don't stray. Men are just expected to put up with whatever a woman dishes out and ask for seconds.
Will Smith went for thirds and a midnight snack afterwards.
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I mean, you really can't prevent a woman from cheating if she really wants to. Even their therapists tell them nowadays "Just go ahead and do it but don't let your husband find out." That's Standard Operating Procedure. Their friends tell them to do it, their families tell them to do it... only the little voice in their head saying "This Isn't Right" would say otherwise, and not everyone has that little voice to begin with.
In order, it goes "I'm bored of my husband/boyfriend and our routine", "He's not enough of A Real Man and I want some excitement", "I'm no longer attracted to him physically but don't want to upset the stability of our shared life", and those are the most common reasons given, and then it gets into "He's cruel/abusive" and "I found out they cheated and I want revenge" stuff. But the MOST cited reasons - and studies back this up entirely - are some variant of "I'm just plain bored of the person I'm with." And to them, that's A Good Reason.
True story, my wife is the only woman I know personally who's never cheated (yet), and a lot of that comes from the fact she never leaves the house unless I'm with her. Otherwise, I'd be a lot more worried about it, especially once she hit 35 or so and started talking openly about the possibility of it "maybe" happening one day. Once you stop f*cking 'em at least 5 days a week they get sick of you REAL fast.
Every other woman I know well personally (as in family and close friends) has cheated at least once, and their reasoning is always some variant of, "Yeah but what are you gonna do?" Like it's crazy to expect anyone to be faithful, or something.
I mean if everyone is a whore then why do we even have any pretense at all, that's what I don't get.