Bullying, cyber or otherwise

[plastroncafe]

It's a topic I've been seeing a whole lot of in my newsreader these days, and seeing as this is a forum for comicbook/videogame/cartoon nerds I'm sure we've all a story or two of our own from back in the day...even if that day was yesterday.

Are kids meaner today? Or is it that there are just so many more ways and means to pick on the odd one out?

Should the schools be doing more, or is this solely the realm of parents groups?

And if we should prosecute this kind of behavior, how the hell do we go about it? Because let's be honest, if some of this stuff happened between adults out in public, someone would be going for a ride in a squad car.

[Katie]

It' not that kids are meaner....it' just that they have more outlets with which to do their bullying.

It's just a part of life I think. It is a very primal instinct to "prey" on the weak. Adults just have more mature self control than teenagers or kids. I was bullied terribly in middleschool because I didn't wear designer clothes or whatever. I didn't care. Honestly I just thought those people were sad.

Prosecute? Nah. I mean.....most bullies don't even know that what they are doing is hurtful. Kids don't really have that kind of intangible empathetic capability in their brains until they are 14 or 15.....which if I remember was pretty much when most bully crap stopped in my school. Prosecute parents? For what? My brother was a HUGE Bully....BUT MY PARENTS RAISED US THE SAME! One victim...one bully. No difference.

[Jester]

I'm not sure. I mean I was bullied lightly as a kid and I'm none the worse for wear, but then again, that was several years ago. Then you have cases like the poor dude at Rutgers who killed himself after his douche roommate outed him by posting hidden camera footage of him engaged in sex with a same sex partner. That's not just bullying, that's almost a form of assault. To pick on a persons hair or cloths is one thing, but this is nuts.

[saiyan_monkey]

My little 9 year old girl was bullied by 3 15 year old boys yesterday by throwing hard balls like basket balls at her. Boy did I let rip at them little pricks. They got the message and I havent seem them since. All bullies do is show thier own insecruities. I was never bullied as a kid but I wont tollerate it anywhere, anytime agaisnt anyone.

[BubblyShell22]

I was bullied in high school by this kid I didn't even know or talk to. He was just so obnoxious and mean to me for no reason. One time I asked him what I did to him and he responded, "You were born." That really ticked me off. But he did apologize for it in my junior year and said he was sorry for treating me so badly. I did forgive him because I felt it was the right thing to do. However, I think bullying is horrible and shouldn't be done at all.

I think that schools should really step up about bullying and talk to kids about it. I like Ellen Degeneres's idea of having a class on compassion and kindness in school. Maybe if kids learned about bullying, they wouldn't do it. There have been a lot of cases of bullying over the past few weeks, and it just makes me sick. People need to step up and do something. Schools need to enforce strict policies on bullying.

[shuriken]

Originally Posted by Katie

It' not that kids are meaner....it' just that they have more outlets with which to do their bullying.
It's just a part of life I think. It is a very primal instinct to "prey" on the weak.

^^This. There was this one kid in Grammar school that everyone in my class (myself included) picked on. We just did it from like 4th grade to 6th. . We just made fun of him cuz he had a horrible stutter and farted when he got nervous.Little by little though, I started to feel bad for him and defended him on some occassions I saw him later on and apologized for a lot of the crap I gave him. Sometimes you don't realize how hurtful picking on someone can be.
On the flip side I was picked on during high school which got me into a few fights. I just made sure that I wouldn't be pushed around by some dumb pricks who thought they were better than you. Once I joined the track team things got better cuz our team was pretty good and sports somehow give you immunity to those sorts of things. As for the online bullying I just think kids spend too much time on computers in this day and age to actually be worried about that sort of stuff. Although It can be problematic when you're getting vicious threats online.

[BubblyShell22]

I think some kids don't even realize they're bullying someone either. Some of the kids see it as a harmless joke when in reality they're causing harm rather than just plain old joking around.

[shuriken]

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20101008/...lying_one_town

I think this is pretty relavent. Kids being bullied to the point of suicide. Makes my stomach turn.

[azrael]

People today are such effing sissies. I am not trying to be mean. Those who have lost their lives because someone called them names or picked on them, they just needed a reason to do it. What was that kids problem yeah spying was wqrong on that one guy but WTF why would a straight guy spy on a homosexual if he was not already wondering in his head what would it be like. The kid that died should have been proud and let it all swing, omfg he is queer.... oh look he is having sex with a gay guy... damn thats what gay people do is have sex on the same sexed person.... I mean what did everyone think was going to happen when 2 guys do it? Its sad that this happens but people need to grow some balls and put em on the wall. Punch the bully hell if you lose then atleast you lost for a reason, instead of killing yourself over nothing....


I know what I wrote sounds bad. I instantly drop respect for people who commit suicide. The only victims it leaves are the people that loved that person for who they were, got no use for selfishness. I was bullied for many years. All it takes is for them to stand up. I take up for people all the time, the "weaker" ones. I ask them why they didnt do anything, its always a size issue "he would have killed me", I am to weak, and other crap all it takes is you asking. whats up bro? I dont even know you whats your deal? It makes them think, its all a mind game. Beat them in your head and you can take them in life.

Its ironic Columbine happens nerds kill bullies. Now bullies are killing nerds.
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[azrael]

Originally Posted by shuriken

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20101008/...lying_one_town

I think this is pretty relavent. Kids being bullied to the point of suicide. Makes my stomach turn.

laughing at the girls funeral... something bad is going to happen to them something far worse. I hate to say it but maybe Columbine was tragic only at the end. She stood up to them, and they did not stop, well there goes my theories. People like that need to be taken somewhere.... I wonder if the headlines where the opposite there. I can see it coming another school shooting. sad to say it but damn it may happen all those people I would not be surprised if the parents do it.
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[Peanut]

Listen, kids who go and kill themselves over bullying are retarded. They're either already mentally unbalanced, or they're just too stupid to understand any better.

I don't give two sh*ts what anyone is saying about you at school, or how many times you get a wedgie, there should be no reason for a normal human being to kill themselves over it. How about the worthless parents do something? Don't call the school and tell them your kid is getting picked on, teach your god damn kids some common sense.

I'm not saying the school shouldn't step in, but you know damn well the ignorant pricks that pass for teachers in these places don't give a sh*t. As for the absolutely ruthless bullying that seems to go on these days, I honestly think it's f*cked, but I've also hated tweens and teenagers since I was one. If it was up to me, I'd find every loud mouth slut and gangsta ass retard and beat them the way their parents should have.

As far as bullying in my life, I was picked on for being small in grade 4 when I moved to a new town. I was in a grade 4/5 split class and there was some fat kid in there who thought he was cool for being huge. I paid him back in high school in SPADES. Aside from that one year, from grade 10 and up and was mean as hell to a lot of people. Not nerds, or ugly kids or whatever, but jackasses who thought they could get away with picking on those kids. *sigh* High School.

[azrael]

I completely agree our society is growing daisies when we should be setting stone. Everyone always wants to be politically correct and sensitive to others? Really, why?
Call it like you see it, and talk to a man like a man. When it comes to women treat them like ladies and maybe we wont have as many sluts.
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[PAAATE]

Originally Posted by azrael

I completely agree our society is growing daisies when we should be setting stone. Everyone always wants to be politically correct and sensitive to others? Really, why?
Call it like you see it, and talk to a man like a man. When it comes to women treat them like ladies and maybe we wont have as many sluts.

HAHAHAHAHA, I don't agree, but at least you're amusing. Especially the last part. Let women **** whomever they want, why do you care?

[azrael]

Its a respect thing for women, you look like trash you nothing but garbage.
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[Koi]

The comments in here are starting to be a little ironic.

I don't think teachers should do more with bullying, the kid's parents should.

[***First of Two Latin Kings***]

Some people are just really easy targets for bullying. I only really do it in fun but people don't always take it that way.

I've also been on the other end quite a few times too...it's actually very hard to not become like your emotional captors over long periods of exposure.

A friend of mine told me that my strongest "talent" was picking out the one flaw or trait that a person is insecure about and running with it like a stand up comic. Most of my friends have been on the END of my abuse too. You take it, you dish it out...it's like that Katy Perry song "Hot n' Cold."

[plastroncafe]

Originally Posted by azrael

Its a respect thing for women, you look like trash you nothing but garbage.

I think maybe your understanding of "respect" might need some tweaking.

[Turo602]

I agree with Peanut, just last year, this "gangster" was messing with me everyday, and I didn't want to go and beat his ass, because I would go to jail. But I stood up for myself and got up and was about to beat his ass, so the useless teacher that knew about this never took action and a security guard came just to split us apart and that was it. Now tell me why nothing didn't happen? He was in no trouble until my parents had to step in. The principle threaten to kick his ass out of the school and said his probation officer would arrest him if he kept his sh*t up. Simple as that, get rid of the problem in just one day. People got to start standing up for themselves and not be afraid to tell someone about assholes bullying you. I know it's really hard for some people, but it's not hard to get rid of stupid lowlifes like them.

[***First of Two Latin Kings***]

Originally Posted by Turo602

I know it's really hard for some people, but it's not hard to get rid of stupid lowlifes like them.

I have a great story that I'll share when I have the energy to type it up.

[shuriken]

Originally Posted by azrael

What was that kids problem yeah spying was wqrong on that one guy but WTF why would a straight guy spy on a homosexual if he was not already wondering in his head what would it be like. The kid that died should have been proud and let it all swing, omfg he is queer.... oh look he is having sex with a gay guy... damn thats what gay people do is have sex on the same sexed person.... I mean what did everyone think was going to happen when 2 guys do it?

Its ironic Columbine happens nerds kill bullies. Now bullies are killing nerds.

About that "Kid" (wasn't he in college?) his roomate was just pissed cuz he would always lock him out of his/their room cuz he always had someone in there. So as a prank he decided to record him during the act, him not knowing that he was gay. Not only did he videotape it, but he streamed the whole thing. thus his secret went out, a secret he wasn't able to let slip but he did, and he decided to kill himself. It's f**ked up on both parts. As for Columbine there have been far more cases where bullies end up killing their prey (albeit indirectly)at some point or another than vice versa.
The parents need to step in on both counts. If your son or daughter is being bullied, tell the bully him/herself to stop it. If not go to the higher ups. And please tell your kid to stand up for him/herself. If you look and act like a rug people will ALWAYS step all over you.
As for the parents of bullies, get your sh*t together and teach your kid some f**king respect, there are already enough problems outside of school. I know sometimes it's not the parents fault and hazing happens sometimes. But when your son or daughter laugh at someone who just f**king died you are not doing your job as a parent.