What did you think of the 40 Year Old Virgin?

[Prowler]

Originally Posted by Metalwolf

Losing it is overrated. In reality, it doesn't make your life or anything else any better or earn you any brownie points that count in real life. If anything some people even are disgusted with themselves for caving into the peer pressure.

Besides, if you are scared of being lonely, you likely won't be. I've known a lot more girls to go for the guys who haven't 'lost it' then for the ones that did. Why? It seems girls go for that 'innocence' (and the fact he's likely STD free) and the dudes I knew that kept it had girls crawling all over them. You lose it, you lose your chick magnet.

Ofc it doesn't turn you into a completely different person. It's not a big deal at all, hence why older virgins are considered "weird" by many, since they can't seem to get something that most people can. People don't have a problem with virginity per se but the possible underlying causes that might have led a person of a certain age to remain a virgin. It's usually correlated with lack of self confidence and/or shyness.