What Grinds Your Gears? :)

[Katie]

One thing I've always noticed about "nice guys" is that they punch waaaaaay above their weight class with women. Supermodel types aren't going to date your typical internet dweller. Yet if a girl more in their weight class comes along and shows interest, they put her down for not being good enough for them.

Also noticed most "nice guys" give all the red flags of being super controlling in relationships. Like you're expected to do what they say with no question and be available to them whenever they want, who cares what you want. Seems like a lot of them want suuuuuper young girls or foreign girls because they're easier to control.

I had nice guy experience. He was nice for like a week. Then he became super abusive, mentally and physically, and super controlling. He was so insecure about me leaving him. All he did was make me want to get rid of him. And I did. I don't play that game.

I never trust anyone who leads with how nice they are and how much better they will treat me. It's bullsh!t.