No Girl Left Behind

[Leonardo Mystic]

Originally Posted by Leonardo Mystic

I want to get married someday, but I'm not going to get married to just anyone. Until I find the one I'm looking for, I'll be remaining single. While I'm not exactly thrilled about it, it's a compromise that will make it worth the wait in the end.

Originally Posted by Katie

There's no such thing as the perfect man or woman (and I'm pretty sure Leonardo isn't springing to real life anytime soon....) anyone who thinks that if they are wait, some fairytale knight will show up needs to grow up.

What you can do is find someone great and realize that you don't need perfection to be happy. That's maturity for you.

Um, did I say that? No, I didn't. You assume too much. I do have priorities that I will not settle for anything less than them, but I'm not looking for perfection. What I am looking for is a good decent guy. I don't want some gangbanger, cheat at every turn, dishonorable, and wife-beater man.

Is that being immature? I don't think so. It's called being cautious so I don't end up as another divorce stastic or domestic abuse. I've seen too many marriages and relationships around me dissolve where the men show their true natures of being absolutely despicable. I'd like to save myself that trouble, thanks.