My craptacular day yesterday.

**GK Punk** · 11-16-2003, 07:26 AM

Anarky asked about why my day sucked yesterday, so I thought I'd quote my own post from Paradigm City in to this thread instead of posting it in another:

Quote:

Originally Posted by GK Version 1

...I just found out the girl that was suppoused to be "the one" has found someone else. We have a.. interesting history together, and broke up/got back together so many times That I was begining to wonder what would happen next.

well Next was her meeting someone from her college... dating him for about 2 months, and just neglecting to mention it to me. Even though I could kinda tell.

I feel like sh** right now. Im just mumbling it seems. I also feel empty.

Sorry to anybody who innocently clicked on this link, but I just needed a place to rant, even though I have no coherent thoughts right now.

I thought I was starting to feel better about it, but I'm actually feeling worse now. Worst part was, I couldn't get ahold of any of my friends to talk to anyone, so I just slept it off. I woke up to my friend Sarah calling me, and she ended up taking me out for Steak to make me feel better.

Her boyfriend was kinda being a dick allnight also.

*Anarky* · 11-16-2003, 07:33 AM

Oh Frell! That sucks. that's one of the worst things that can happen.

in these situations i always think of my grandfather telling me: "You'll never find the real thing unless you try it and if it was no good it was too stupid to think about in the first place." that always helps me...

My worst day was when i got run over by a car, smashed it's windshield had a lot of shards in my arms and back and was charged with "Destruction of Property" or whatever the things called when you destroy someone else's property.

**GK Punk** · 11-16-2003, 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by anarky

Oh Frell! That sucks. that's one of the worst things that can happen.

in these situations i always think of my grandfather telling me: "You'll never find the real thing unless you try it and if it was no good it was too stupid to think about in the first place." that always helps me...

My worst day was when i got run over by a car, smashed it's windshield had a lot of shards in my arms and back and was charged with "Destruction of Property" or whatever the things called when you destroy someone else's property.

That DOES suck

I hate cars, and thats the reason why.

~~Leo656~~ · 11-16-2003, 07:42 AM

Boyfriends always are. But like I said earlier, take solace in the fact that she'll still be hanging out with you after she's outgrown that guy. And she will.

As for the situation as a whole, what can I say? Things work out in sh*tty ways sometimes. I been there. Who knows? Maybe this other chick'll decide she likes you more than her boyfriend.

I'unno bro... relationships suck. That's all I know.

Meira-Bates · 11-16-2003, 08:39 AM

Once again, this sounds like something I've been through... Is it me or do I sound like everything happens to me and I'm whining and trying to steal the spot light? I feel it must look like it at times but I swear I'm not X.x I'm just trying to prove to people they aren't alone, try to make them feel better and the like. Anyhoo....

My boyfriend did similar to what your girlfriend did...only we were on a 'temporary' split up. Bastard asks me not to date anyone, then he goes and dates a younger girl for a while(he'd moved away so I had no idea). Durring that time whenever he talked to me he seemed to have NO intrest in anything I said and his excuse was that he was depressed. Then all the sudden, just out of the blue, he's talking to me like normal again... He was complaining to me about how some ex girl friend of his was with a total jeark now, how he missed her, ect, ect.

Well the way he was going about it, he sounded like he was talking about an OLD ex, cause he'd had quite a few of those before he persued me as his romantic intrest. Well I forgot what, but I saw something that just suddenly made it slap me in the face... I asked him WHEN he went out with this ex of his... It was almost as soon as he'd gotten there and when he told me, you should have SEEN how much he hesitated to do it. I know that he was wanting soooo bad to lie to me. Well I chewed his arse out, but I told him I was forgiving him that time.....but.....not only did he KEEP complaining to me about that ex of his and treat me as if I was second in line compaired to her, but he had ANOTHER girl at his house and told me he WOULD have slept with her if his life wasn't screwed enough already.

That's when I finnaly just said f***it, told him our relationship was /OVER/ on all possible levels, and cut ANY abilities for him to contact me. And there was other stuff this guy had done before that, but that's not part of my story. I don't miss this guy at all and I feel wiser for having been through it...I grew a back bone that day I dumped him off, and it was one that made the wieghts on my shoulders MUCH lighter as I had many other things depressing me as well at the time, and strangely, that day was the happiest day of my life in YEARS...if that doesn't prove something, I don't know what does.

Anyhoo...I'm with Leo about the other girl....it was really sweet of her to take you out to eat like that. Personaly, after my experience, if the girl goes out with someone like that without telling you for two months, I'd say she feels she's cheating on you. If she feels she's cheating on you now, then I'd not see how unfaithful she'd be to you while you were in the relationship from now on. /BUT/ that's me, and I'm paranoid after alot of the things that have happened to me, so I wouldn't say my advice is any good. Sorry for rambling so long on your thread GK, but I hope I helped you out some how...

*Raven* · 11-16-2003, 10:10 AM

that sucks! ah well like they say what goes around comes around........or somthing like that......I forget how it goes.

**ThirdMarioBro** · 11-16-2003, 10:36 AM

Man that sucks so badly. Sorry to hear it.

Misfit · 11-16-2003, 11:38 AM

Wow, that really bites, GK.

No one deserves to be treated like that. I hope you feel better soon.

*Mars-Chan* · 11-16-2003, 12:39 PM

Aw, Gk...*hugs*

Check out my journal:
www.livejournal.com/users/Great_wolf

I have a few Sailor Moon quizzes and I think you'll be happy to take them....

And of course I posted about yesterday's episode of TMNT....

**azure turtle** · 11-16-2003, 03:19 PM

Sorry to hear that you're feeling down, buddy.

I hope things get better. Maybe it's time you find another fish in the sea?

*Cascadia* · 11-16-2003, 04:32 PM

I know how you feel.....I met a guy back in my freshman year. He was highly unpredictable but he keeps coming back. Finally about a year ago, we went to see A Beautiful Mind. His new cell phone kept going off. I told him to turn it off. After the movie, I pushed him......I had it with him. I dumped him as a friend and a dating friend. He came around again last week.....I do not even answer the phone.

**GK Punk** · 11-16-2003, 04:41 PM

Unfortunetley Sci Freak, that may be what I have to do. We just got in to a fight over how to return our things to eachother. (Well, the rest of our things.)

I feel so upset right now, I might throw up...

*Cascadia* · 11-16-2003, 04:50 PM

when I broke up with him....it was the best that I felt in 5 years

**GK Punk** · 11-16-2003, 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scienctific freak

when I broke up with him....it was the best that I felt in 5 years

Hopefully I'll feel that way before too much longer.

*Cascadia* · 11-16-2003, 05:03 PM

he used to mentally and physically abuse me.

**GK Punk** · 11-16-2003, 05:08 PM

I'm VERY Proud of you for getting rid of him then. No one diserves that. Especially not someone who seems as nice as you do.

*Cascadia* · 11-16-2003, 05:20 PM

thank you.....he is much taller than me. He had one of my majors but he was no where near as dedicated as me. He did not scar me for life. He knows that I am easy-going/laid back but I also have a serious side to me. But I rarely show it.....but it is there. Someone has to really get on my nerves and make me mad.

11-16-2003, 08:39 AM	#5
Meira-Bates Mad Scientist Join Date: May 2003 Location: an abandoned wearhouse Posts: 1,057	Once again, this sounds like something I've been through... Is it me or do I sound like everything happens to me and I'm whining and trying to steal the spot light? I feel it must look like it at times but I swear I'm not X.x I'm just trying to prove to people they aren't alone, try to make them feel better and the like. Anyhoo.... My boyfriend did similar to what your girlfriend did...only we were on a 'temporary' split up. Bastard asks me not to date anyone, then he goes and dates a younger girl for a while(he'd moved away so I had no idea). Durring that time whenever he talked to me he seemed to have NO intrest in anything I said and his excuse was that he was depressed. Then all the sudden, just out of the blue, he's talking to me like normal again... He was complaining to me about how some ex girl friend of his was with a total jeark now, how he missed her, ect, ect. Well the way he was going about it, he sounded like he was talking about an OLD ex, cause he'd had quite a few of those before he persued me as his romantic intrest. Well I forgot what, but I saw something that just suddenly made it slap me in the face... I asked him WHEN he went out with this ex of his... It was almost as soon as he'd gotten there and when he told me, you should have SEEN how much he hesitated to do it. I know that he was wanting soooo bad to lie to me. Well I chewed his arse out, but I told him I was forgiving him that time.....but.....not only did he KEEP complaining to me about that ex of his and treat me as if I was second in line compaired to her, but he had ANOTHER girl at his house and told me he WOULD have slept with her if his life wasn't screwed enough already. That's when I finnaly just said f*it, told him our relationship was /OVER/ on all possible levels, and cut ANY abilities for him to contact me. And there was other stuff this guy had done before that, but that's not part of my story. I don't miss this guy at all and I feel wiser for having been through it...I grew a back bone that day I dumped him off, and it was one that made the wieghts on my shoulders MUCH lighter as I had many other things depressing me as well at the time, and strangely, that day was the happiest day of my life in YEARS...if that doesn't prove something, I don't know what does. Anyhoo...I'm with Leo about the other girl....it was really sweet of her to take you out to eat like that. Personaly, after my experience, if the girl goes out with someone like that without telling you for two months, I'd say she feels she's cheating on you. If she feels she's cheating on you now, then I'd not see how unfaithful she'd be to you while you were in the relationship from now on. /BUT/ that's me, and I'm paranoid after alot of the things that have happened to me, so I wouldn't say my advice is any good. Sorry for rambling so long on your thread GK, but I hope I helped you out some how... __________________ I'm also the winner of the award for being least likely to receive an award! O.o**

11-16-2003, 10:10 AM	#6
Raven follower of Jesus Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 6,212	that sucks! ah well like they say what goes around comes around........or somthing like that......I forget how it goes. __________________ TMNT Future Despair Deviant Offical Ultimate Ninja Turtles Site!

11-16-2003, 10:36 AM	#7
ThirdMarioBro Tea Time! Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 8,905	Man that sucks so badly. Sorry to hear it. __________________

11-16-2003, 11:38 AM	#8
Misfit Stone Warrior Join Date: May 2003 Location: UK Posts: 508	Wow, that really bites, GK. No one deserves to be treated like that. I hope you feel better soon. __________________ My LiveJournal My Fanfiction "I'm the pretty one!" - Mikey in "Meet Casey Jones".

11-16-2003, 12:39 PM	#9
Mars-Chan I'LL BE THE HERO!!!! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Practicing Alchemy in Risembool Posts: 6,297	Aw, Gk...hugs Check out my journal: www.livejournal.com/users/Great_wolf I have a few Sailor Moon quizzes and I think you'll be happy to take them.... And of course I posted about yesterday's episode of TMNT.... __________________ clings to award THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!! cries in joy RED DAAAAAAAAAAAAWWN!!!! PROUD Member of the Risembool Rangers! (icon made by bakergirl69 on glitter-graphics)

11-16-2003, 07:33 AM	#2
Anarky Outlaw Hero Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Tannhauser Gate Posts: 4,867	Oh Frell! That sucks. that's one of the worst things that can happen. in these situations i always think of my grandfather telling me: "You'll never find the real thing unless you try it and if it was no good it was too stupid to think about in the first place." that always helps me... My worst day was when i got run over by a car, smashed it's windshield had a lot of shards in my arms and back and was charged with "Destruction of Property" or whatever the things called when you destroy someone else's property.

11-16-2003, 07:42 AM	#4
~~Leo656~~ Banned Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: nWo Country Posts: 27,703	Boyfriends always are. But like I said earlier, take solace in the fact that she'll still be hanging out with you after she's outgrown that guy. And she will. As for the situation as a whole, what can I say? Things work out in sh*tty ways sometimes. I been there. Who knows? Maybe this other chick'll decide she likes you more than her boyfriend. I'unno bro... relationships suck. That's all I know.

11-16-2003, 03:19 PM	#10
azure turtle Mango Lovin' Mutant Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 9,453	Sorry to hear that you're feeling down, buddy. I hope things get better. Maybe it's time you find another fish in the sea? __________________ "God, I love being a turtle!" Want to meet the only blue ninja turtle in existence? Come visit me at my Lair!

11-16-2003, 04:32 PM	#11
Cascadia Oregonian in heart & soul Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 3,731	I know how you feel.....I met a guy back in my freshman year. He was highly unpredictable but he keeps coming back. Finally about a year ago, we went to see A Beautiful Mind. His new cell phone kept going off. I told him to turn it off. After the movie, I pushed him......I had it with him. I dumped him as a friend and a dating friend. He came around again last week.....I do not even answer the phone. __________________ Formally known as Scientific freak

11-16-2003, 04:41 PM	#12
GK Punk I'm your Devil Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,439	Unfortunetley Sci Freak, that may be what I have to do. We just got in to a fight over how to return our things to eachother. (Well, the rest of our things.) I feel so upset right now, I might throw up...

11-16-2003, 04:50 PM	#13
Cascadia Oregonian in heart & soul Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 3,731	when I broke up with him....it was the best that I felt in 5 years __________________ Formally known as Scientific freak

11-16-2003, 05:03 PM	#15
Cascadia Oregonian in heart & soul Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 3,731	he used to mentally and physically abuse me. __________________ Formally known as Scientific freak

11-16-2003, 05:08 PM	#16
GK Punk I'm your Devil Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,439	I'm VERY Proud of you for getting rid of him then. No one diserves that. Especially not someone who seems as nice as you do.

11-16-2003, 05:20 PM	#17
Cascadia Oregonian in heart & soul Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 3,731	thank you.....he is much taller than me. He had one of my majors but he was no where near as dedicated as me. He did not scar me for life. He knows that I am easy-going/laid back but I also have a serious side to me. But I rarely show it.....but it is there. Someone has to really get on my nerves and make me mad. __________________ Formally known as Scientific freak

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