The New Café - Page 261

Gabriel GP · 03-03-2014, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by samxsteal

Just snowed for like 8 hrs straight roads are a mess

You don't have idea of what I would give for some snow right now. Man, in the college even with the air conditioning in the lowest temperature, can handle the heat. It looks like a sauna.

*TheCanadiandrome* · 03-04-2014, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by samxsteal

my wife has that right know and im also sick lol hopefully we all get batter soon

good luck to us all

*BubblyShell22* · 03-05-2014, 09:50 AM

Getting snow here which is not cool. I'm so tired of winter.

*Whatswiththeheadbands?* · 03-13-2014, 09:05 AM

Well, this is stupid. My Dad has been let go from his job.

He has been working at that place for 33 years. Only got let go yesterday. He thought that he would be there for another 10 years. Doesn't seem that way anymore.

*samxsteal* · 03-13-2014, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by whatswiththeheadbands?

Well, this is stupid. My Dad has been let go from his job.

He has been working at that place for 33 years. Only got let go yesterday. He thought that he would be there for another 10 years. Doesn't seem that way anymore.

I wish Your family Luck.

ALso Mortgage Companies and buying a house is kind of a pain in the butt and My wife and i are Feeling like we're being pushed into something and it sucks -_-

*BubblyShell22* · 03-13-2014, 09:59 AM

Sorry to hear about your dad, Headbands. That happened to my neighbor who worked at her job for seventeen years and was let go. Just sucks how people get treated after years of service.

Hamato Yoshi · 03-15-2014, 08:27 AM

Norwegian woman fell in love with a man online , transfered around 85-90k (!) to a man in Equador and was told to transport suitcase with unknown contents , suitcase contained 3 kilos drugs (now there's a surprise huh) and now she might be looking at 15 yrs in jail , on top of the money she lost.

There was a woman in US who also got ripped off 500k in dating scam.

*TheCanadiandrome* · 03-16-2014, 12:27 AM

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Originally Posted by whatswiththeheadbands?

Well, this is stupid. My Dad has been let go from his job.

He has been working at that place for 33 years. Only got let go yesterday. He thought that he would be there for another 10 years. Doesn't seem that way anymore.

Wish you and yours all the best

*BubblyShell22* · 03-16-2014, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Hamato Yoshi

Norwegian woman fell in love with a man online , transfered around 85-90k (!) to a man in Equador and was told to transport suitcase with unknown contents , suitcase contained 3 kilos drugs (now there's a surprise huh) and now she might be looking at 15 yrs in jail , on top of the money she lost.

There was a woman in US who also got ripped off 500k in dating scam.

And this is why I always warn people to be careful when trying to find love online. You just never know who you're going to get.

*Cowabunga Carl* · 03-18-2014, 03:33 PM

Hey everyone, been a while. So my wife and me both came down with some major health problems and over the course I lost my job too. I ended up with surgery and have had to take time off from the job I just got. Anyway I made this crowdfundit to see if I could get help for me and my wife. Thought I'd share it here, couldn't hurt.

http://www.gofundme.com/3hqlw0

*BubblyShell22* · 03-18-2014, 04:23 PM

Sorry to hear that, Carl. I hope things get better for both of you.

*Whatswiththeheadbands?* · 03-20-2014, 10:13 AM

Man, learning to play the guitar ruins your fingers beyond belief.

My fingers right now feel like they need to be amputated.

*BubblyShell22* · 03-20-2014, 05:08 PM

Well, I'm sure it won't be so bad once you get the hang of it.

*TheCanadiandrome* · 03-22-2014, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Cowabunga Carl

Hey everyone, been a while. So my wife and me both came down with some major health problems and over the course I lost my job too. I ended up with surgery and have had to take time off from the job I just got. Anyway I made this crowdfundit to see if I could get help for me and my wife. Thought I'd share it here, couldn't hurt.

http://www.gofundme.com/3hqlw0

Good luck bro

*mysterycolor* · 04-06-2014, 02:16 AM

hey everyone, i know i have been MIA recently but i am super busy getting ready for baby

i am now 25 weeks and we are having a little girl! I hope you are all well. xoxo

*Candy Kappa* · 04-06-2014, 03:30 AM

Great news Mystery

I've not so great news, my Fluval Fx5 filter unit for my turtle tank is broken, one of the water hoses connector piece broke right off, rendering the filter unit useless until I get a new lid. A task seemingly very hard.

I have found a spare part lid for the Fx6 unit, but I'm not sure if they are compatible... My turtles are managing for now, but we have a guest from the UK living with us for two weeks and I don't want the tank to smell like death and decay...

*Whatswiththeheadbands?* · 04-06-2014, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by mysterycolor

hey everyone, i know i have been MIA recently but i am super busy getting ready for baby

i am now 25 weeks and we are having a little girl! I hope you are all well. xoxo

That's great news mysterycolor!

*BubblyShell22* · 04-06-2014, 09:33 AM

Congrats on that, Ali. Best of luck. Hope your delivery goes well.

*Lethal Lullaby* · 04-06-2014, 11:42 AM

I need some real advice about this.
How do I explained to my boyfriend that he kind of needs to give me space once in a while? And maybe about other issues...

Spoiler:

So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

*BubblyShell22* · 04-07-2014, 08:21 AM

Well, my advice would be just to try and talk to him gently about it. Let him know that you realize he's having problems with his family, but that you deserve your space, too. Ask him if he can find something else to do besides come over all of the time. If he gets upset about what you say, then just apologize and explain that you're being honest with him. Sometimes it helps to be honest. My BF knows that I'm the type to want my own space which is why he respects that and why we don't see each other all of the time. Yeah, it's unconventional, but it works for us and has worked for ten years. So I'm not about to change anything. Just talk to your BF and let him know how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.

03-05-2014, 09:50 AM	#5203
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Getting snow here which is not cool. I'm so tired of winter. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

03-13-2014, 09:05 AM	#5204
Whatswiththeheadbands? The Weed of Crime Join Date: May 2013 Location: The Shadow's Sanctum Posts: 3,007	Well, this is stupid. My Dad has been let go from his job. He has been working at that place for 33 years. Only got let go yesterday. He thought that he would be there for another 10 years. Doesn't seem that way anymore. __________________ Who knows what Evil lurks in the hearts of Men? The Shadow knows...

03-13-2014, 09:59 AM	#5206
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Sorry to hear about your dad, Headbands. That happened to my neighbor who worked at her job for seventeen years and was let go. Just sucks how people get treated after years of service. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

03-18-2014, 04:23 PM	#5211
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Sorry to hear that, Carl. I hope things get better for both of you. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

03-20-2014, 10:13 AM	#5212
Whatswiththeheadbands? The Weed of Crime Join Date: May 2013 Location: The Shadow's Sanctum Posts: 3,007	Man, learning to play the guitar ruins your fingers beyond belief. My fingers right now feel like they need to be amputated. __________________ Who knows what Evil lurks in the hearts of Men? The Shadow knows...

03-15-2014, 08:27 AM	#5207
Hamato Yoshi Stone Warrior Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 950	Norwegian woman fell in love with a man online , transfered around 85-90k (!) to a man in Equador and was told to transport suitcase with unknown contents , suitcase contained 3 kilos drugs (now there's a surprise huh) and now she might be looking at 15 yrs in jail , on top of the money she lost. There was a woman in US who also got ripped off 500k in dating scam.

03-18-2014, 03:33 PM	#5210
Cowabunga Carl Mad Scientist Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 2,384	Hey everyone, been a while. So my wife and me both came down with some major health problems and over the course I lost my job too. I ended up with surgery and have had to take time off from the job I just got. Anyway I made this crowdfundit to see if I could get help for me and my wife. Thought I'd share it here, couldn't hurt. http://www.gofundme.com/3hqlw0

03-20-2014, 05:08 PM	#5213
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Well, I'm sure it won't be so bad once you get the hang of it. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

04-06-2014, 02:16 AM	#5215
mysterycolor t-u-r-t-l-e seller!! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 3,481	hey everyone, i know i have been MIA recently but i am super busy getting ready for baby i am now 25 weeks and we are having a little girl! I hope you are all well. xoxo __________________ mysterycolor TMNT ebay auctions- http://bit.ly/mysterycolor mysterycolor's basement auctions- bit.ly/mysterybasement

04-06-2014, 03:30 AM	#5216
Candy Kappa The Agenda of Existing Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Vikingland Posts: 14,596	Great news Mystery I've not so great news, my Fluval Fx5 filter unit for my turtle tank is broken, one of the water hoses connector piece broke right off, rendering the filter unit useless until I get a new lid. A task seemingly very hard. I have found a spare part lid for the Fx6 unit, but I'm not sure if they are compatible... My turtles are managing for now, but we have a guest from the UK living with us for two weeks and I don't want the tank to smell like death and decay... __________________ devianArt Instagram Youtube Tumblr Art Blog Patreon

04-06-2014, 09:33 AM	#5218
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Congrats on that, Ali. Best of luck. Hope your delivery goes well. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

04-06-2014, 11:42 AM	#5219
Lethal Lullaby Foot Elite Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 4,816	I need some real advice about this. How do I explained to my boyfriend that he kind of needs to give me space once in a while? And maybe about other issues... Spoiler: He claims to hate his family, because he can't handle being around his autistic brother and sister. I don't mind if he comes over to hang with me, but he just comes over almost everyday and spends most of the say here. It sucks that he don't have television or internet, but he doesn't have to rely on only me for his entertainment. Then he gets too emotional about small things, which is okay... but it needs to be taken down a few notches sometimes. Be just goes through every possible emotion in half a day. And it's hard for me to tell him what he does that bugs me, or he'll get so upset to almost depressed about it, so most (or all) of the time I just keep it in or just don't say anything... Pretend most of the time to not be bothered by it. And I just feel bad for him because he's had serious personal problems in his past, so that just makes me not want to hurt him anymore. He just let's things get to him too easily I think. And i can't seem to tell him that he just needs to not care too much about what bugs him. (friday he was getting worked up about people having their phones out during other's preformances, and i tried telling him not to worry about them because they will get what's coming, but he couldn't seem to do that.) And the final thing that bugs me, but not as much as the others, is how he over analyzes things and it's okay to share your knowledge once in a while, but not to the point where you sound like a know it all and correct everything i say or do wrong. So I don't even know anymore... So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Last edited by Lethal Lullaby; 04-06-2014 at 11:50 AM.

04-07-2014, 08:21 AM	#5220
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Well, my advice would be just to try and talk to him gently about it. Let him know that you realize he's having problems with his family, but that you deserve your space, too. Ask him if he can find something else to do besides come over all of the time. If he gets upset about what you say, then just apologize and explain that you're being honest with him. Sometimes it helps to be honest. My BF knows that I'm the type to want my own space which is why he respects that and why we don't see each other all of the time. Yeah, it's unconventional, but it works for us and has worked for ten years. So I'm not about to change anything. Just talk to your BF and let him know how you feel. Honesty is the best policy. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.