The New Café - Page 43

*Mr. Snackpants* · 03-16-2007, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by jeff the cheff

At least they didn't drive away after...that happened to me at target once. apparently the cameras on the parking lot at target "don't really work"

Last year my friends and I went to a girls bball game, and I drove my mom's SUV there. Half way through the game they called out the license plate number and I went to meet with the A.D. someome witnessed someone nail my back bumper as they were leaving and drive off. They totally crushed the rear right bumper. I called the police and filed a report. The cameras at this particular high school didn't work worth crap either. The next day I get a call from a teacher from that school. She hit my car and drove off. Her excuse was she has a sleeping disorder and didn't realize she created any damage. If you hit something, get out and look at least. And if you have this disorder, you shouldn't be driving. I saw her the next day at the football game at their high school and when I played a bball game there.

shellofinsanity · 03-19-2007, 10:26 PM

gah women suck, so its like this, im engaged to the girl in my avatar, shes the cute one lol. Well now here is the thing, i work part time, my car got totaled today, and she told me if i dont go see her at school this week shes leaving me, shes outta state doing collage and im here still working and busting my butt, its been about 2 months and she says im ignoreing her, and she told me this right after i told her i totaled my car, what is it with women, together 3 years and now this.

*Mr. Snackpants* · 03-20-2007, 12:07 AM

You look A LOT like someone I know...its crazy. Maybe its because your avatar is small. Sounds like a tough situation, being so far apart.

*Cascadia* · 03-20-2007, 12:15 AM

Long distance relationships are very hard, believe me. I just dumped a guy that lives several hundred miles away and it was getting hard to see each other. In my opinion, the true way that long distance relationships work out is if there is an understanding that it would be difficult to see each other frequently. Other than that, I do not know what to tell you.

shellofinsanity · 03-20-2007, 12:30 AM

im in texas, she goes to ohio state, so i cant just go see her whenever i want, its not cheap to drive or fly

*Katie* · 03-20-2007, 08:37 PM

Long distance is hard....My first serious relationship was LD for the last part of it. I lived in Alabama working and he was here in Nashville going to Vanderbilt. We tried to see each other once a week (I usually drove here) and we talked every night. But that relationship was not meant to be for reasons other than the LD.

Now, I am in another one. this one is impossible to meet right now because of work situations. But still, I would not trade my guy for ANYONE else. I love him with all my heart.

You have to be strong and independent for these to work...and have a good bit of trust. It is VERY hard. you have to be committed to make things work and be understanding that communication might not happen every single night, etc. (I suck at this, BTW. I would like to talk every single night but with work schedules, etc, I know that this is impossible...I just have a hard time remembering this logic at times and get pouty) I get jealous of my friends and their relationships alot...when they talk about what they did on dates, with their husbands...have babies, etc. BUT I LOVE MY GUY. In the end...I will have those things too.

AND I BELIEVE this will work. if I did not absolutely believe that someday things will fall into place for me and my guy then this relationship is doomed to fail.

Hope things work out

**Jo Dawn** · 03-20-2007, 08:52 PM

I don't understand why she'd leave you for not visiting. I think it's highly selfish to not understand that something bad happened to you; that your car is totalled.

I don't understand that mindset at all.

*Mr. Snackpants* · 03-20-2007, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by shellofinsanity

im in texas, she goes to ohio state, so i cant just go see her whenever i want, its not cheap to drive or fly

Ohio State? Ugghh, dump her now!!!

But seriously....that's a long ass way to drive. How'd you meet her? Or I guess one of you or both couldve moved.

**GK Punk** · 03-20-2007, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jo Dawn

I don't understand why she'd leave you for not visiting. I think it's highly selfish to not understand that something bad happened to you; that your car is totalled.

I don't understand that mindset at all.

Agreed. That just makes no sense.

shellofinsanity · 03-20-2007, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Snackpants

Ohio State? Ugghh, dump her now!!!

But seriously....that's a long ass way to drive. How'd you meet her? Or I guess one of you or both couldve moved.

her dad went there, and the only school hed pay for was Ohio state, shes from Texas like me, her dad moved her for work. As for her mindset, she thinks im cheating on her and am lying about my car, i think ive got her convinced now though, she has reasons that are valid though, 6 months ago i did cheat after i got drunk at a party and i felt bad and confessed to her about it, she hasnt trusted me much since, and i understand why.

**GK Punk** · 03-20-2007, 10:41 PM

Yeah. Im just gonna go sit in that corner over there.

Peanut · 03-20-2007, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by shellofinsanity

she has reasons that are valid though, 6 months ago i did cheat after i got drunk at a party and i felt bad and confessed to her about it, she hasnt trusted me much since, and i understand why.

.......ROFL! I hope she dumps you.

shellofinsanity · 03-20-2007, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Peanut

.......ROFL! I hope she dumps you.

she didnt dump me back then, we worked things out, we have been together a long time and it was one time and i told her as soon as i was sober, we worked through it, just i know she is a lil suspicous

Peanut · 03-20-2007, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by shellofinsanity

she didnt dump me back then, we worked things out, we have been together a long time and it was one time and i told her as soon as i was sober, we worked through it, just i know she is a lil suspicous

Well she has every right to be. You're lucky she didn't just toss you out right at that moment. I'm gonna perfectly blunt right now...you kinda make me sick.

**GK Punk** · 03-20-2007, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Peanut

.......ROFL! I hope she dumps you.

shellofinsanity, Peanut. Peanut, shellofinsanity. I do believe that was the last formality needed.

Peanut · 03-20-2007, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Michi heavenly6

shellofinsanity, Peanut. Peanut, shellofinsanity. I do believe that was the last formality needed.

Oh, GK. You know you're thinking the same thing as me!

愛 · 03-20-2007, 11:06 PM

I know I am!

**GK Punk** · 03-20-2007, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Peanut

Oh, GK. You know you're thinking the same thing as me!

Never said I wasn't

Just introducing him to you, 'cause that bluntness was so classic Peanut.

shellofinsanity · 03-20-2007, 11:15 PM

i understand how this looks, but its the past, oh nm

Peanut · 03-20-2007, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by shellofinsanity

i understand how this looks, but its the past, oh nm

It's cool, man. I kind of don't blame you...cause seriously....woof!

03-19-2007, 10:26 PM	#842
shellofinsanity Thug Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 85	gah women suck, so its like this, im engaged to the girl in my avatar, shes the cute one lol. Well now here is the thing, i work part time, my car got totaled today, and she told me if i dont go see her at school this week shes leaving me, shes outta state doing collage and im here still working and busting my butt, its been about 2 months and she says im ignoreing her, and she told me this right after i told her i totaled my car, what is it with women, together 3 years and now this. __________________

03-20-2007, 12:15 AM	#844
Cascadia Oregonian in heart & soul Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Portland, Oregon Posts: 3,731	Long distance relationships are very hard, believe me. I just dumped a guy that lives several hundred miles away and it was getting hard to see each other. In my opinion, the true way that long distance relationships work out is if there is an understanding that it would be difficult to see each other frequently. Other than that, I do not know what to tell you. __________________ Formally known as Scientific freak

03-20-2007, 12:30 AM	#845
shellofinsanity Thug Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 85	im in texas, she goes to ohio state, so i cant just go see her whenever i want, its not cheap to drive or fly __________________

03-20-2007, 08:37 PM	#846
Katie Just...way too serious. Join Date: May 2005 Location: purgatory Posts: 3,519	Long distance is hard....My first serious relationship was LD for the last part of it. I lived in Alabama working and he was here in Nashville going to Vanderbilt. We tried to see each other once a week (I usually drove here) and we talked every night. But that relationship was not meant to be for reasons other than the LD. Now, I am in another one. this one is impossible to meet right now because of work situations. But still, I would not trade my guy for ANYONE else. I love him with all my heart. You have to be strong and independent for these to work...and have a good bit of trust. It is VERY hard. you have to be committed to make things work and be understanding that communication might not happen every single night, etc. (I suck at this, BTW. I would like to talk every single night but with work schedules, etc, I know that this is impossible...I just have a hard time remembering this logic at times and get pouty) I get jealous of my friends and their relationships alot...when they talk about what they did on dates, with their husbands...have babies, etc. BUT I LOVE MY GUY. In the end...I will have those things too. AND I BELIEVE this will work. if I did not absolutely believe that someday things will fall into place for me and my guy then this relationship is doomed to fail. Hope things work out __________________ THE WORLD IS JUST AWESOME

03-20-2007, 08:52 PM	#847
Jo Dawn Inactive Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Authority On All Things Don Posts: 5,190	I don't understand why she'd leave you for not visiting. I think it's highly selfish to not understand that something bad happened to you; that your car is totalled. I don't understand that mindset at all. __________________

03-20-2007, 12:07 AM	#843
Mr. Snackpants Keep cool my babies! Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Mount Pleasant Posts: 2,239	You look A LOT like someone I know...its crazy. Maybe its because your avatar is small. Sounds like a tough situation, being so far apart.

03-20-2007, 10:41 PM	#851
GK Punk I'm your Devil Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,439	Yeah. Im just gonna go sit in that corner over there.

03-20-2007, 11:06 PM	#857
愛 Super Moderator Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 7,449	I know I am!

03-20-2007, 11:15 PM	#859
shellofinsanity Thug Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 85	i understand how this looks, but its the past, oh nm __________________