Why do people still think calling someone gay is an insult?

[plastroncafe]

You sound awfully tetchy for someone preaching to others how they shouldn't be offended by things. Almost like you're offended to be called out for bringing your private use of slurs into a public forum.

If it's not our business, don't tell us about it.
That way it's a lot harder for us to call you out on your bigoted choice of words.