Why is anger male so appealing? (Long rant)

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Description:

"Signs of anger issues in a man may include*frequent outbursts, verbal or physical aggression, isolation from loved ones, irritability, and a pattern of blaming others. While anger is a natural and healthy emotion, problems arise when it becomes disproportionate to the situation."

You should really think this is cool, attractive and appealing???

Since when did it become fashionable? Why?

Why we were lied to?


Example:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mb4MCvVw3PM
• "I'm not really big at words"
Guys, lack of words is not strength and sexy. Stoicism is not fashionable. You should talk.
• "Loner, hothead, maniac"
You think being a team-player has become uncomfortable, embarrassing and below dignity? Being a “loner” isn’t depth, it’s disconnection.
Who said that hothead is passionate?
• "Warrior"
The “warrior” pose glorifies aggression. Temperance - not bravado.

While flaws can happen. It is not ok to glorify and fall in love with it. Plenty iteration happened but this dude Raph stayed a PISSY FACE, ffs. I won't forgive anyone for pushing and forcing this toxic male archetype, while others can and allowed to move on, change, progress, and vary from each of their portrayals.
Can we put a stop to worshipping this kind of toxicity in a character and iterating in every version.
Toxic male fakefanz really into anger Raph because otherwise "Leo is boring, Don is nerdy and Mikey is annoying". They effing diminished everyone to their shallow, made-up archetypes. They primitivised and hate everybody.
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Finishing point: put those nonsense traits in a villain. Not on Raph. Who's supposed to be a hero and a role model. Remember, for kids, impressionable kids.
Who we want to grow up and become responsible and emotionally intelligent adults. Add something nice, good, innovative, intelligent and trusting to the society. Be a healthy element, member, cell to the society's existing chaos and struggles. Ok.
Don't cater to anger male fans, who have no depth, personality, and sense of boundary of their own. Who were propagated in filth romanticising those males. We shan't be sick in the head and excuse temper, bad behavior, "boys will be boys" propaganda, instead we should bypass glorifing and falling in love with those people for fashion, for those poor expression of a character and, instead, look out for each other (regardless of gender. Real looking out, for safety and mental health, not covering each other's faults, ok).
We should move on, we should be aware, be better.
Be responsible and conscious of what we show, bypass, and glorify onscreen.


So here's a question for a poll, for fun.
When out of 4 people who
•live in the same place,
•grown in the same place
•eat the same food
one of them is pissy, they could be SICK, stressed. They are NOT ok. It is NOT normal.

Health reasons, besides just simply being confrontational:

• Heart & Blood Pressure: Stress raises heart rate and blood pressure, straining the cardiovascular system.
• Immune System: Chronic stress weakens immunity, making someone more prone to infections.
• Digestion: Stress slows or disrupts digestion, which can cause stomach pain, diarrhea, or constipation.
• Hormones & Metabolism: Cortisol affects blood sugar and fat storage, which can increase risk for diabetes or weight gain.
• Brain & Mood: Stress chemicals interfere with sleep, memory, focus, and can lead to anxiety or depression.
• Muscles & Pain: Stress causes muscle tension, headaches, and even chronic pain.