Epidemic Growth of PORN!!!

[Candy Kappa]

This is a fairly simple thread with the article.

Children that seek porn before they are sexually matured do it not because the are too early sexual influenced. They do it because it's a nono and that's the whole thrill, looking for things they are not allowed to look at, R rated movies, slasher flicks, porn, adult magazines and swearing. half of the fun with stealing apples or strawberries from the neighbor is the act it's self, or the running from the neighbor not to get caught.

control your child's internet use, put in filters. Most browsers already have a search filter to begin with, making porn harder to "accidentally find". Control the child's Internet hours. Internet isn't some awesome divine power you can't control, just pull the plug and say no when the *cough* brat *cough* --- I mean innocent angel want more time.

Afraid that the child is broken after seeing porn? fret not. Talk to them Children ain't stupid, sex is a natural thing and shouldn't be alienated. When the kid is old enough (somewhere between 11-13 I guess) tell them about sex, do not trust that school will take care of it. It's a parents job NOT school, you never know who at school will teach sex ed, it might be some religious extremist scarring your child for life.

I should know, I got the worst teacher ever and got told extreme religious propaganda containing details as genitalia pieces would rot and fall off, rubbing yourself would cause sickness and sex before marriage could cause infections. I think I went in more detail in an other thread, but I've never been so scared before.

Tell your children that porn is a fantasy, make-believe just like in the movies (no one really dies in a movie). And are not for real, you don't have to go trough every genre of porn, just keep it simple. And let your child watch animal planet or if you don't have the channel let then watch animal programs on TV, let them know that sex is not some evil thing created by man.

Depending on age, around 15-16 i guess. (legal to have sex in Norway is age 16) parents might want to talk about sexual pressure and the overused play on sex in media, learn them that they have every right to say no if there is something they don't want to do or feel uncomfortable with. And teach about how important protection is.

And if a person can't see the difference between porn and reality, that person got some mental issues.

and if you have a partner adventurous enough to test things seen in porn movies, hooray for you. You lucky b*stard


this post ended up longer then I had planned