Aw she's so sweet

[KROW]

Thanks, Ben.

Heh. The only reason I wasn't taken was because most of the women where I reside are stuck up and snobbish. According to them, if you don't have a flashy car, a minimum of $500 in your wallet, and abs like Jesus, you're no good. They choose to pair up with a man like that, who's ego is so big it's amazing he can fit a cap sideways on that melon. Then, before you know it, the guy runs off with another girl who was competing with the previous one, and so on and so forth.

After that, they spend 6 hours or more daily in their bedrooms crying over what happened, blubbering constantly, wondering why their relationships don't work. Furthermore, they wonder why they're doomed to never find that good man.

Ouch.

Krow certainly tells it like it is.

Seriously, You're totally right, Krow. Lots of women are like that, and it's sad really...

But, there are men out there that are pretty much the same too. Men who only look for women who are obedient, have huge breasts, and will put out on the first night.


I think the majority of people in general are jerks and morons anyway, so, what can you do?... *shrugs*

[KROW]

Just do what I did: Sit back, relax, be yourself, and that certain person will amble into your life.

That's basically my whole approach to the dating scene. I let the girls come to me. I look at it a bit awkwardly. Women put more thought and effort into a relationship than men do. If they go to a bar or club to have fun, they have fun. If they go to meet a guy, they check out the scene. Either way, they really don't want these bozos sauntering over, bothering them, giving out those horrendous lines. Usually, they check for signs from afar; they check for a man's mood, demeanor, characteristic, overall personality, and then their looks.

So when I went out, I just chilled out. 'Course I never met anyone because they were too busy grinding with anonymous males, not caring about what they're like, just how they looked.

[Jo Dawn]

Originally Posted by KROW

Thanks, Ben.

I'm chopped liver. *sniff*










Krow is right, though, on most points. And so is Ryo. I'm a woman, and I can't believe how alot of women act sometimes.

And men, too.

Originally Posted by Jo Dawn

I'm chopped liver. *sniff*

Not to me, Jo.

You're my sugar baby.

[Anarky]

Originally Posted by JD

Krow is right, though, on most points. And so is Ryo. I'm a woman, and I can't believe how alot of women act sometimes.

And men, too.

Well, yeah. But, I mean, wouldn't it be a lot less interesting and sometimes even less funny if men ad women, or if people genereally understood each other? I could imagine this to be rather boring.

But on the other hand, most of the time I wish it wasn't like that.

[JameO]

Well said Krow, that is my situation too so I took the online approach as well, even though I can't be with her at the moment, it will look good in a few years, you get to see the best part of a person online, their thoughts and feelings, and then you move to webcam and then real life. But you know the person isn't in love with your "performance" or your looks. Glad to hear it's going well with you two, best wishes for a future full of hapiness. I just want to past through the next few years and get to the good part of life.

[Jo Dawn]

Originally Posted by Ryo

Not to me, Jo.

You're my sugar baby.

Yay!! I feel all loved and better now. *huggles ryo*

I just want to past through the next few years and get to the good part of life.

Amen to that...

[GK Punk]

I actually met my girlfriend online. i always thought only losers did that, but man was I wrong... i've realized it doesn't matter how or where you meet, aslong as you put the effort in to making it work. now here I am in Texas

[Anarchistguy]

Off-topic: I thought you lived in California... ???

[Spitfire]

Aw it doesnt matter where you meet your love, being with them and being happy is all that matters

[GK Punk]

Originally Posted by Anarchistguy

Off-topic: I thought you lived in California... ???

Exactly my point. I'm from California, but am right now staying in Texas with my girlfriend.

[JameO]

Good to hear GK, hope it all goes well for you. Where in Texas? Mine is in Fort Worth. I don't really know Texas but you might know where that is. And definately Spit, as long as the both of you are happy together, who cares what people say.

[ThirdMarioBro]

I've always told people that online relationships do work. It just takes a lot of effort like it would with anything else in life.

[Sewer Bull]

Originally Posted by ThirdMarioBro

I've always told people that online relationships do work.

They do. Personally I know 2 online relationships that became real life marriages - and last happily so far!

[GK Punk]

Actually I do know where that is! I'm in the Dallas area right now (Denton to be exact) and I've been to Fort Worth during my trip here.

[Storm Wolf]

Originally Posted by Alison Chains

I always thought only losers did that, but man was I wrong... i've realized it doesn't matter how or where you meet, aslong as you put the effort in to making it work.

You know....I thought the same thing at one point...

That's what I tried to tell my Family. I got a lot of bad attitude from people when I told them my relationship was an online one. Many people don't consider that a "real" relationship because it's not physical.

Most my family tried to talk me out of the relationship by telling me I didn't even know the person I was talking to. Then when the relationship moved over to the phone I caught hell for spending hours on the phone with some "Weirdo".

I think it really shocked everyone when I left. They thought it was just a phase...like all my other relationships, but here I am! Right in KROW's living room.

This is nothing like my other "real" relationships. This time I've actually got someone who's willing to put his effort into it and make it work.

[XERO]

I hope to one day have a woman who loves me for me.

I'm not gonna whine and cry about it, because I know it'll happen soon.

I guess I'm just like that. I guess I just take everything lightly sometimes, but I feel that's what we need to do every once in a while. You can't take everything too seriously, especially relationships. That's where stress comes in and destroys your entire sanity.

Like KROW said, 'Patience is a virtue.' He's living proof.

And I'm a very patient guy. I know it's gonna happen.

[Hannah]

When you meet someone online you get to know them for who they are before you even know what the look like....
But then again there are some very bad parts about it... like the gross kidnappers, rapists, and yeah... And then there's the sex sites. UGH. Like, that "True" ****. I see ads for it all the time, mjust zoomed in pictures of girls chests/ girls licking their lips and it's like, "Love's blind. We know you're not." It's soooooo gross.


But yeah... I'm happy with an online relationship.. even thought I put up with alot of crap from people. I mean.... when shadow called this child abuse hotmline thing for me (i didnt want him to -.-) these people came to my house w/ the police and when they found out about shadow being my boyfriend.. they started arguing with me. The police were like saying they doubted he was 15 and that he was out to get me. I was like, "He's the one who CALLED you! You RETARDS!" And then the stupid bitch from the child abuse thing was like "well i dont think its good for you to have an online relationship, especially with a boy 3 years older than you" i SOOOO wanted to throw something at her..but i didnt.... that whore. she doesnt want me to talk to him! that bitch ><;;;
and so they made me go to therapy, and the stupid therapist tries to talk me out of being with shadow, and all the kids in my neighborhood make fun of me.. but its worth it cuz i love him



The things I do for love....

[KROW]

Originally Posted by Jo Dawn

I'm chopped liver. *sniff*

Don't start, you!

Originally Posted by Storm Wolf

Most my family tried to talk me out of the relationship by telling me I didn't even know the person I was talking to. Then when the relationship moved over to the phone I caught hell for spending hours on the phone with some "Weirdo".

But I am a weirdo...

Originally Posted by Storm Wolf

This is nothing like my other "real" relationships. This time I've actually got someone who's willing to put his effort into it and make it work.

Damn right I'm willing.

Originally Posted by Benvenuto

Like KROW said, 'Patience is a virtue.' He's living proof.

Hell, spending 7 years with a witch of a woman teaches you patience. I used it to my advantage when someone a whole helluvalot better came into my life.