The New Café

[Anarchistguy]

Any particular reason for this statement?

[JaffleMan]

Originally Posted by Jo Dawn

I hate myself right now.



That is all.



Going to cry self to sleep again.

I can definitely relate. Do that quite often but then when rational thought eventually hits back at me I realise that I'm sooking over basically nothing. I'm only starting to grasp that I need to learn not to be too hard on myself. For some reason I have the uncanny ability at convincing myself that everyone hates me when I know quite well that isn't the case.

Sleep definitely the best cure as you get over it in the morning...... can't give you any more advice other than that because if i could, I wouldn't be suffering the same problem.

I hope all turns out well with whatver crisis it is your having.

[Swany]

Jo I hope that whatever is bothering you gets sorted out as soon as possible.

[Katie]

my turn. Hormones, sis. you were right about mine and I betcha a million dollars that has a little something to do with you

I know you have alot going on and sometimes it all just piles up. Take me. I have job issues, relationship fears, holiday stress. AHHHHH! So many days I just want to stay in bed and not get up rather than running all that stuff through my head constantly all day long.

(In case you guys didn't know, that is a special girl power. The ability to literally have our minds constantly on several different worrying things {why did he say that to me....where am I going to get the money to pay that bill....what am I going to fix for dinner.....} and function at our job/school/life as if nothing is going on. Damn female brain)

Sometimes you just have to shut off the stuff you are dwelling on. easier said than done....BELIEVE me I know.....

scream into a pillow or yell out all your frustrations as you drive around in your car (my personal favorite). It gets all the emotional garbage out and usually makes you feel better

[syd]

ah...finally,i'v caught boss eating.i don't know what to say,perhaps there is a tinny little disappointment of discovering he is not a robot.i'm not crazy i tell you,life is fantastic.

there's still hope,though.he eat way too few to be take as a middle aged man,even a human.that day one of his worker brought a small box of dumplings,it's a very dainty box and dainty plate of dumplings.i took a glance at them,no more than 10,when we came back from lunch.he just began to eat his subtle dumplings before asking the guy who bought them for him "what's stuffing?"the guy replied,waging his tail,"something special."dude,you may think he was gonna poison him,oh look at his eyes.boss didn't say anything after that.but,hey!i'v caught him eating!!0xo big deal!

but as i said,he ate too little to believe,i saw there were more than half in the subtle plate,yet he was about to stand up holding it and randomly talking with us "who'd like some dumplings?" who dare?!oh,dude!who dare to share boss's dumplings?!dude,was he creative!he inflexiblely kept asking "who'd like some dumplings?i can't eat another bite."that's doubtful.he ate no other than 3-4 dumplings,in all honesty.unless he's a superman.i wonder why he would pretend to eat several dumplings just to deceive us perhaps,but...i began to think of where were thoes dumplings he had eaten went.maybe they were merely concealed inside some part of his alloy body and after we went home he dumpped them off.anyway,he kept asking us,finally his prayer got heard by God,one of his female workers seemed help him finish one or two,i'm never sure about how she did that,for i couldn't just stare at them and doing nothing i had to pretend concentrating on my screen,coz i was a little afriad that he might reward ME one or two...though it's only 1 to 100 percentage,i really thank God i'm not a gal.actually,i got a feeling that he intended to share his dumplings with "snow white",they call her snow white coz she looks like a snow white,obviously.seriously,she is really an art of God,snowy skin,dark hair,slender waist,well,i don't know how to describe,but you have my word,she is the snow white.and you have my word,too,you couldn't think boss never had a bit thought of approaching her.well,i don't mean that boss is a bad man,but when you got a gal like snow white working for you every day,well,i just say let's wait and see.so i think he planed to share his dumplings with her.but she refused,good for her.she always refuses everyone,she's a little...dumb in her head,though she looks gorgeous.you take that time,when boss let her typing something for him and when she finished gave it to him.then she was done,and you saw she was upset,i bet she had no idea how to give it to him,she asked "someone",actually you never sure she was asking whom,"i'v done,how to give it to him?"i was sit beside her then,but you know i don't think she was really talking to me,but i answered anyway,coz no one answerred,dude,you may think we always that work our ass off.i said:"do you have a MSN ID?you could send it to him through that."she said nothing,she's deaf,coz obviously she's not mute.then she asked again,to boss,"boss,i'v done,how to give it to you?"GOD,is she annoying.then you heard boss answering "ok,send it to me,do you use MSN?"that's it,she is dumb,not deaf.but since she's snow white,who cares?i mean,who cares snow white is a dumb or not?she is the princess.

actually i don't very agree with her gorgeous title,though.i'd rather call her "evil angel".seriously,all women are evil angels,to tell the truth.i really don't want to invole myself with any of them,but sadly,one day i have to.and that woman,i shell not call her the gal,i shell call her THAT woman,and i do accentuate "TH-",TH--AT woman.that woman must be the Queen.you know our off time is 6:00 pm,when it's dark outside,and our evil angel is a chicken hearted evil angel,who is scared to go walking outside in darkness solo.and unfortunately,no one is convenient to go along with her to the bus station except me,i always win the lottery.so i'm her guardian,sorta,but it's a funny thing to assume that she will thank you for that even it's out of convenience.and you know what?she just turned into her damn mute slash deaf when she went along with you toward the station.i mean,the last min you might talking with her inside the department,but as soon as you are out of the building,she changed back to her mute.that's psychosis!furthermore,as soon as you were near to the station,she slowed down,little by little,she slowed down,and pretended to ignoring you and queued up for her bus alone,and coz there's sevral feets between hers and mine,i kept going ahead without dropping a "bye" to her.that depressing woman just used you to guard her along till she got her depressing station,you may think everything in this world wants to attack her at night,just because she is princess,God,she really killed me.women are evils,you have my word.

[Cure]

Originally Posted by Katie

(In case you guys didn't know, that is a special girl power. The ability to literally have our minds constantly on several different worrying things {why did he say that to me....where am I going to get the money to pay that bill....what am I going to fix for dinner.....} and function at our job/school/life as if nothing is going on. Damn female brain)

Uh...it's not like females are the only ones with things to think about or who can pretend like nothing's going on, you know.

[愛]

I have ADD (the real thing, not the fake condition where kids blame their bad grades in school on ADD), and one of the primary symptoms of ADD is constantly thinking about a million things at a million miles an hour. I could be thinking about what I want for dinner, then two seconds later be worrying about my grades, then thinking about a funny article I read earlier that day. It's something that cannot be changed even with medication, but the medication I do take helps me with concentration during school. It really works wonders.

...but the point I'm trying to make is Cure is right. Guys can also think about other things than getting laid and...getting laid?

[Katie]

nah, you misunderstand. I am fully aware that men can switch thoughts at a quick pace...but I am talking about litterally being able to give a presentation while silmultaneously pondering on something else. The presentation is coherent and goes on with no interruptions or slips...yet all the time I am mentally analyzing a completely separate and unrelated thing. Most females have this ability. This is why females seem to litterally never drop something that is bothering them.

Take an argument between you and your girlfriend. you may ponder the things said and the issues throughout the day, but generally when nothing else is going on that requires mental concentration. The girl on the other hand will literally be in constant thought on the fight, despite having to concentrate on other things to function throughout the day.

when you next see each other you may have moved past things, but the girl will have been constantly on it all day long and have it fresh in her mind and ready to discuss. again. and again. and again. (know what I mean?) THIS is why we seem like nags sometimes...or freakishly obsessed with minor things. It is a wierd little quirk of the female brain

[Mecha Cow]

I am fully aware that men can switch thoughts at a quick pace...but I am talking about litterally being able to give a presentation while silmultaneously pondering on something else. The presentation is coherent and goes on with no interruptions or slips...yet all the time I am mentally analyzing a completely separate and unrelated thing.

Err...Men can do this too. We can also pee standing up!

[Cure]

Originally Posted by Katie

nah, you misunderstand. I am fully aware that men can switch thoughts at a quick pace...but I am talking about litterally being able to give a presentation while silmultaneously pondering on something else. The presentation is coherent and goes on with no interruptions or slips...yet all the time I am mentally analyzing a completely separate and unrelated thing. Most females have this ability. This is why females seem to litterally never drop something that is bothering them.

Take an argument between you and your girlfriend. you may ponder the things said and the issues throughout the day, but generally when nothing else is going on that requires mental concentration. The girl on the other hand will literally be in constant thought on the fight, despite having to concentrate on other things to function throughout the day.

when you next see each other you may have moved past things, but the girl will have been constantly on it all day long and have it fresh in her mind and ready to discuss. again. and again. and again. (know what I mean?) THIS is why we seem like nags sometimes...or freakishly obsessed with minor things. It is a wierd little quirk of the female brain

Seriously, you're not making sense. Men can't multi-task now? We don't worry about arguments we have with significant others? I don't wanna turn this into some gender war, but give us some credit.

[Katie]

Just something I remembered from psycology lectures a couple semesters ago. *shrugs* I don't really give a rat's ass whether you believe it or not. I wasn't out to personally lynch any of you guys...honestly I could care less...just remembering a lecture I thought was interesting.

I'm in a pretty sh!tty mood so I will leave it at that

EDIT after sleep: The lecture was about how men and women's brains work different. I feel you guys think I was saying men were somehow inferior to me which is HARDLY the case. In fact, I pretty much think everyone in the world is better than me. I am a horrible human being.

I mean, what else do you say about someone who keeps being nice and trusting having nice good funny conversations, buying lunch for you when you are down and out...driving 2 hours to get you home when your car breaks down five miles from your house... only to have these "friends" use her for whatever they want and then drop her like a hot rock when they are tired. you would think I would learn since it has happened to me since middle school, but no. I am incapable of learning to just stay away from people.

So yeah. I was never saying I or women were better.

[KROW]

Originally Posted by Katie

I mean, what else do you say about someone who keeps being nice and trusting having nice good funny conversations, buying lunch for you when you are down and out...driving 2 hours to get you home when your car breaks down five miles from your house... only to have these "friends" use her for whatever they want and then drop her like a hot rock when they are tired. you would think I would learn since it has happened to me since middle school, but no. I am incapable of learning to just stay away from people.

I can say this: sooner or later, the punching bag gets hit hard enough to swing back and give the puncher some comeuppance.

Hang in there, champ.

[SassyGal]

Originally Posted by Katie

Take an argument between you and your girlfriend. you may ponder the things said and the issues throughout the day, but generally when nothing else is going on that requires mental concentration. The girl on the other hand will literally be in constant thought on the fight, despite having to concentrate on other things to function throughout the day.

when you next see each other you may have moved past things, but the girl will have been constantly on it all day long and have it fresh in her mind and ready to discuss. again. and again. and again. (know what I mean?) THIS is why we seem like nags sometimes...or freakishly obsessed with minor things. It is a wierd little quirk of the female brain

RamBam & I just had this discussion like a day ago! He can never figure out why when we fight I can recall multiple past occurences from like 10 years ago that may relate to the current subject matter of the current fight And he just doesn't understand the need to discuss and discuss and discuss and...well you know what I mean! Girls just argue differently then men. We want to discuss EVERYTHING to death & they make their statements & move on.........lucky bastards

[syd]

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!

my brother just found me another job,which is something about HR interview in english,sorta,i'm not quite sure about what it need to do yet,before i get to the company and has my own interview,i'm so underdressed!he said my present one is distracting me from my major, i know!but i'v never done this kinda thing in the past of my life,none!interview other employees???God! i'm an employee myself!and that's right,my major is economy,but i'm not preparing for applying that kinda of positions...no...i like....i like drawing,i'm the skilled work thing,not management not diplomacy and in english?!he gotta be kidding me!i know!he gotta be testing my english level!God...!oh...God!i'v never practice speaking...God!just cancel that horrible interview and kill me now!JUST KILL ME NOW!!!

[syd]

i tell you,i will NOT take that kind of job.
i'm NOT interested in all these hairing and and fairing traps,i'm a honest person.
why would i listen to you when choosing my own career?i'm NOT a kid anymore!
i will explore in my favorite field to my best and have NO regret!

over and above are what i'm going to tell him...i think i will...well...when he is in a good mood,perhaps...AHHHHHHHHHH!!!

[Jo Dawn]

What happened, not to go into it, was... I'm as calm as can be normally... But if I blow, watch out. I went OFF on things and people I shouldnt have to someone who I never wanted to see me that way. I was horrified that what I said completely ruined things with us... Or that he will think I am a bad person for thinking these things or saying them.

But he forgave and forgot and all that.






...But it's ok... Because I'm being angry with him right now.

EDIT - Why do some people feel the need to, when you have good big news, to inquire WHY and act like it shouldn't have been bought or happened or whatever? Especially when you have never ever questioned their purchases, EVER?

[syd]

...........God i hate you.

[Jester]

Originally Posted by syd

WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?! my brother just found me another job,which is something about HR interview in english,sorta,i'm not quite sure about what it need to do yet,before i get to the company and has my own interview,i'm so underdressed!he said my present one is distracting me from my major, i know!but i'v never done this kinda thing in the past of my life,none!interview other employees???God! i'm an employee myself!and that's right,my major is economy,but i'm not preparing for applying that kinda of positions...no...i like....i like drawing,i'm the skilled work thing,not management not diplomacy and in english?!he gotta be kidding me!i know!he gotta be testing my english level!God...!oh...God!i'v never practice speaking...God!just cancel that horrible interview and kill me now!JUST KILL ME NOW!!!

i tell you,i will NOT take that kind of job.
i'm NOT interested in all these hairing and and fairing traps,i'm a honest person.
why would i listen to you when choosing my own career?i'm NOT a kid anymore!
i will explore in my favorite field to my best and have NO regret!

over and above are what i'm going to tell him...i think i will...well...when he is in a good mood,perhaps...AHHHHHHHHHH!!!

I'd love to offer my advice but...what?

[Cure]

Originally Posted by Jester

I'd love to offer my advice but...what?

Ignore him. Now he's pissed at Jo for not giving him advice like he expected so he's being a whiny little brat.

[syd]

first of all,i shell correct you about my reaction to JO,actually,i'm not sure how to react,i'm not even sure if Jo was talking to me or not,not to mention i couldn't get at them at all.

secondly,i'm not a brat.and you have no right to call me a brat or a kid or something like that,coz in age i could be your papa.