The New Café - Page 157

Evenstar227 · 02-20-2009, 05:20 PM

I'm so sorry, GK. You and your family are in my prayers.

**Jester** · 02-20-2009, 05:38 PM

Man GK...I'm sorry. I'll continue to keep you in my prayers.

Now me.

I just heard that a man I've known most my life, my 4th grade Sunday school teacher, and practically my 3rd grandfather whose cancer was in remission has come back, and it's in his lungs. They say he's he's waning fast, not sure if it's the cancer or his spirits, but please remember him and his family right now.

Ginny · 02-21-2009, 08:42 AM

I am so sorry. GK and Jester, you are both in my prayers.

*Voltron* · 02-21-2009, 04:06 PM

Gk, my deepest condolences to you and yours. Same thing goes for Jester.

*Mecha Cow* · 02-21-2009, 04:12 PM

Damn it. I'm so sorry, GK.

And for you too, Jester. You've gone through a lot of tough times lately.

*XERO* · 02-21-2009, 05:33 PM

Damn. I really, REALLY, hate it when great people have to suffer.

I'm so sorry, guys. I wish I could turn it all around, because it sure would make me feel better.

*sighs* Life is pain. Pain is love. Love is death. Death is life.

Heck of a cycle, isn't it?

I hope we all get through our struggles, and one of the ways we can accomplish that is by sticking together. You guys definitely helped me through my darker days (which are coming back), and I wish to do the same.

**Shredder** · 02-22-2009, 12:10 AM

I'm very sorry to hear about the difficult times you're going through, GK and Jester. My thoughts and prayers go out to you both.

*gobo* · 02-22-2009, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by GK

So I've heard from my Brother. She's expected to pass in the next 24 to 48 hours, her body has begun shutting itself down.

Sirry I couldn't bring myself to comment before, but I didn't know what to say without sounding insincere or somewhat disrespectful. Since my foot's going in my mouth one way or another, I'll go with the possibly disrespectful, misplaced humor condolence. Next time I should meet with fate, I'll give her a good backhanded bitch-slap for being so cruel to you. You don't deserve such harsh treatment.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jester

I just heard that a man I've known most my life, my 4th grade Sunday school teacher, and practically my 3rd grandfather whose cancer was in remission has come back, and it's in his lungs. They say he's he's waning fast, not sure if it's the cancer or his spirits, but please remember him and his family right now.

Sure thing. Is this another out-of-reach friend/relative?

*Kunoichi_Haruko* · 02-22-2009, 04:01 AM

Right. Okay.

I was going to post something long and overly verbose about why I haven't been around for a few weeks, but seeing as it's been over an hour, and I'm still composing it, and I'm not even halfway done, I'll just get to the main points:

I've been pretty listless and depressed for (at least) the last five years.
No one (in my family) seems to have noticed.
Since no one noticed, I resolved to sort my life out by myself.

I was doing okay in January. It's been a f*cked up February. Some catastrophic events:

My father passed away on the 2nd.
My uncle (aunt's husband) passed away on the 13th. We just buried him today.

I've gone back to square one. Scratch that, I'm at -5000 at this point. I feel numb and empty (which is rather funny, as those words imply not feeling anything), and I feel myself going to a very dark place. I know it's being exacerbated by the fact that I've been surrounded by death for pretty much the last month, but I can't stop myself going there. I'm not coping as well as everyone seems to think. Help please.

And I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situations, GK and Jester. Looks like it's been a bad month all around...

*Mecha Cow* · 02-22-2009, 05:33 AM

Sorry to hear that, Kunoichi.

SassyGal · 02-22-2009, 10:32 AM

I am so sorry you're going through another tragedy Jester. It's been a long road for you lately and I'll keep you in my thoughts.

Ruko, I am so sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. If you ever need to talk, PM me. *hugs*

*KROW* · 02-22-2009, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Kunoichi_Haruko

Looks like it's been a bad month all around...

Pretty much what I was going to say. Damn. My deepest sympathies to all of you.

*Kunoichi_Haruko* · 02-22-2009, 04:37 PM

Thank you Mecha, SassyGal and KROW. *hugs you all*

**Jester** · 02-22-2009, 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gobo

Sure thing. Is this another out-of-reach friend/relative?

Nope, he is in fact right here...which means I can do something for him if the need presents itself.

And Kunoichi_Haruko, I'll keep you in my prayers as well.

*Raven* · 02-22-2009, 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kunoichi_Haruko

Right. Okay.

I was going to post something long and overly verbose about why I haven't been around for a few weeks, but seeing as it's been over an hour, and I'm still composing it, and I'm not even halfway done, I'll just get to the main points:

I've been pretty listless and depressed for (at least) the last five years.
No one (in my family) seems to have noticed.
Since no one noticed, I resolved to sort my life out by myself.

I was doing okay in January. It's been a f*cked up February. Some catastrophic events:

My father passed away on the 2nd.
My uncle (aunt's husband) passed away on the 13th. We just buried him today.

I've gone back to square one. Scratch that, I'm at -5000 at this point. I feel numb and empty (which is rather funny, as those words imply not feeling anything), and I feel myself going to a very dark place. I know it's being exacerbated by the fact that I've been surrounded by death for pretty much the last month, but I can't stop myself going there. I'm not coping as well as everyone seems to think. Help please.

And I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situations, GK and Jester. Looks like it's been a bad month all around...

Ah, Kunoichi my heart goes out to you. If you need some one to talk to send a Pm my way. Im more then willing to listen or whatever you need!

**ThirdMarioBro** · 02-23-2009, 02:51 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss GK. I truly am.

**Machias Banshee** · 02-23-2009, 07:30 PM

I wish there was something I could say to you three to make you feel better... I'm so so sorry..

*many hugs and prayers to all of you*

<3

**GK Punk** · 02-23-2009, 07:31 PM

Just wanted to add the final update to all of this, her heart was donated to someone last night.

*Voltron* · 02-23-2009, 08:22 PM

What a wonderful Valentine's gift. How charitable your family must be! At least some joy could sprout from this tragedy.

And Kunoichi, I stand with Raven in his offer. Death can be difficult to deal with. I'm sure things will turn out for the best.

*Cure* · 02-23-2009, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GK

Just wanted to add the final update to all of this, her heart was donated to someone last night.

Yeah, at least it can be used to save someone else's life.

Sorry, homie.

02-20-2009, 05:20 PM	#3121
Evenstar227 Stone Warrior Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: 42 Burr Hill Rd Posts: 513	I'm so sorry, GK. You and your family are in my prayers. __________________ In the beginning...

02-20-2009, 05:38 PM	#3122
Jester Rat-faced Dude-guy Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Arkansas Posts: 26,301	Man GK...I'm sorry. I'll continue to keep you in my prayers. Now me. I just heard that a man I've known most my life, my 4th grade Sunday school teacher, and practically my 3rd grandfather whose cancer was in remission has come back, and it's in his lungs. They say he's he's waning fast, not sure if it's the cancer or his spirits, but please remember him and his family right now. __________________ "Clearly, you're Ninja Turtling incorrectly." - Leo656

02-21-2009, 08:42 AM	#3123
Ginny Hench Mutant Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Steubenville, Ohio Posts: 352	I am so sorry. GK and Jester, you are both in my prayers. __________________ "Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?"

02-21-2009, 04:06 PM	#3124
Voltron Handsomest Boy in School Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: The Realm of SJW Posts: 4,642	Gk, my deepest condolences to you and yours. Same thing goes for Jester. __________________ I AM FOR ACTUAL! . . . and the White Savior. . . and the Right Hand of God. . .

02-21-2009, 04:12 PM	#3125
Mecha Cow Gorgeous and modest too Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 3,699	Damn it. I'm so sorry, GK. And for you too, Jester. You've gone through a lot of tough times lately. __________________

02-21-2009, 05:33 PM	#3126
XERO Hybrid Theorist Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Alamo City Posts: 8,185	Damn. I really, REALLY, hate it when great people have to suffer. I'm so sorry, guys. I wish I could turn it all around, because it sure would make me feel better. sighs Life is pain. Pain is love. Love is death. Death is life. Heck of a cycle, isn't it? I hope we all get through our struggles, and one of the ways we can accomplish that is by sticking together. You guys definitely helped me through my darker days (which are coming back), and I wish to do the same. __________________ "Travel at the speed of light... then hit the nitro!"

02-22-2009, 12:10 AM	#3127
Shredder Admin/Layton Apprentice Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 481	I'm very sorry to hear about the difficult times you're going through, GK and Jester. My thoughts and prayers go out to you both. __________________ "Well, actually, I always wanted to be a writer. Being a ruthless conqueror was my second choice." --Shredder, Take Me to Your Leader

02-22-2009, 04:01 AM	#3129
Kunoichi_Haruko A shell of a good hit! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Richmond, Va. Posts: 1,685	Right. Okay. I was going to post something long and overly verbose about why I haven't been around for a few weeks, but seeing as it's been over an hour, and I'm still composing it, and I'm not even halfway done, I'll just get to the main points: I've been pretty listless and depressed for (at least) the last five years. No one (in my family) seems to have noticed. Since no one noticed, I resolved to sort my life out by myself. I was doing okay in January. It's been a fcked up February. Some catastrophic events: My father passed away on the 2nd. My uncle (aunt's husband) passed away on the 13th. We just buried him today. I've gone back to square one. Scratch that, I'm at -5000 at this point. I feel numb and empty (which is rather funny, as those words imply not feeling* anything), and I feel myself going to a very dark place. I know it's being exacerbated by the fact that I've been surrounded by death for pretty much the last month, but I can't stop myself going there. I'm not coping as well as everyone seems to think. Help please. And I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situations, GK and Jester. Looks like it's been a bad month all around... __________________

02-22-2009, 05:33 AM	#3130
Mecha Cow Gorgeous and modest too Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 3,699	Sorry to hear that, Kunoichi. __________________

02-22-2009, 10:32 AM	#3131
SassyGal Mad Scientist Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: London, Canada Posts: 1,349	I am so sorry you're going through another tragedy Jester. It's been a long road for you lately and I'll keep you in my thoughts. Ruko, I am so sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. If you ever need to talk, PM me. hugs

02-22-2009, 04:37 PM	#3133
Kunoichi_Haruko A shell of a good hit! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Richmond, Va. Posts: 1,685	Thank you Mecha, SassyGal and KROW. hugs you all __________________

02-23-2009, 02:51 AM	#3136
ThirdMarioBro Tea Time! Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 8,905	I'm so sorry for your loss GK. I truly am. __________________

02-23-2009, 07:30 PM	#3137
Machias Banshee Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 17,163	I wish there was something I could say to you three to make you feel better... I'm so so sorry.. many hugs and prayers to all of you <3

02-23-2009, 07:31 PM	#3138
GK Punk I'm your Devil Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 12,439	Just wanted to add the final update to all of this, her heart was donated to someone last night.

02-23-2009, 08:22 PM	#3139
Voltron Handsomest Boy in School Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: The Realm of SJW Posts: 4,642	What a wonderful Valentine's gift. How charitable your family must be! At least some joy could sprout from this tragedy. And Kunoichi, I stand with Raven in his offer. Death can be difficult to deal with. I'm sure things will turn out for the best. __________________ I AM FOR ACTUAL! . . . and the White Savior. . . and the Right Hand of God. . .