New Year's Resolutions? - Page 2

SassyGal · 01-01-2012, 11:27 PM

I think my resolution is to continue looking forward and leaving the past in the past, where it belongs. After watching some family drama unfold between my mom and her brother regarding my nana and her transition from independent living to living in a nursing home, I have seen the horrible effects of holding onto to past wrongs and grudges. Learning from our mistakes is healthy, but holding onto anger is self-destructive. Watching my mom's already fractured family dynamic implode on itself has been a HUGE wake up call for me.

I'm also going to start journalling again. 2012: The year of self reflection for me!

*BubblyShell22* · 01-02-2012, 08:38 AM

Wow. That sounds like a good resolution, Sassy. Good luck. Journaling is a good thing to do. That way, if you're angry about the drama in your life, you can get it out by writing about it. I haven't really written in a journal for a long time, but when I did, it really helped me.

Chipzard · 01-08-2012, 11:38 PM

My New Year Resolution is cut down on texting, cut down on using the computer/Internet, focus on improving my relationship w my girlfriend, try to get together w old friends to hang out, try some new hobby I guess, eat better foods too! Cut down on movies, save more money, so I can go visit my gf, and get her something special for Valentine, wish me luck!

*BubblyShell22* · 01-09-2012, 04:50 PM

Good luck on all of that, Chip. I really hope you follow through with it.

Chipzard · 01-14-2012, 06:23 PM

Sigh yeah...my gf said I'm doing better, making some improvements, even my mom too! Still focusing on trying to get a job and so on, trying to save money, doing the best I can. Cuz, my gf coming down for Valentine next month, to celebrate anniversary of 1 yr w me, hope things goes well, of course I know, cuz we talk plans about our future anyway

*pannoni1* · 01-14-2012, 06:37 PM

Think of Lent, Ramadan, and Yom Kippur as occassions to reinforce your New Year's resolutions. I hope to finally reveal to my parents and friends that I'm a TMNT fan, since I've kept it secret (except for the occasional passing glance) ever since I joined this board. I fear that they tell me as "why are you acting like you're 6 years old?", when in fact there are lots of things to appreciate as an adult on here.

But my ultimate resolution is simple: find a first date. I'm entering my late 20s, but have still NEVER dated a single lady (don't give me those Irma cliches, please!) Preferably, one that can at least tolerate TMNT (not necessarily a fan, as long as it doesn't annoy her). None of those overrated "get in shape, clean the house, find a better job" resoltuions. Think of this time of year (and always) to plan where you want to dream where you want to be next.

*BubblyShell22* · 01-14-2012, 07:04 PM

Ugh. I always hated Lent. I never really understood it and don't practice it anymore. But I see where you're coming from. Good luck on your resolution. But my advice would be to not rush the dating scene. Sometimes when you're not looking it'll come your way. Just be patient.

*gobo* · 01-14-2012, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BubblyShell22

Ugh. I always hated Lent.

Me too! Ever since I got that piece stuck in my throat... >_<

*Katie* · 01-14-2012, 08:27 PM

I've never really understood the need to hide any likes or dislikes from family. Of all people you should be comfortable being yourself around them. I mean, I'm sure my family has no clue as to why their now adult daughter continues to love ninja turtles, but they accept it.

And really I could care less what anyone thinks about what I like and don't. If you don't like who I am, then don't hang around. Be yourself and be happy.

My only resolution is to be there for those I love. I figure this is an easy one to keep. It's going to be a year of changes, but it will be a good year.

*BubblyShell22* · 01-15-2012, 08:19 AM

That's actually a really good resolution, Katie and one that I'm sure you'll be able to keep. Good for you.

*Samhain* · 02-17-2012, 03:48 PM

Well, in staying with my New Years resolution I have lost 18 pounds since making this thread!

Hard work but it's worth it. Here's hoping to many more lost during the year.

*BubblyShell22* · 02-18-2012, 08:46 AM

Yeah, I've stuck with mine, too. I managed to finish a fan fic I'd been keeping on hold for a few years. Yay!

*gobo* · 02-18-2012, 01:01 PM

Haven't died yet!

*Hero* · 02-18-2012, 02:28 PM

I don't celebrate New Year myself, so I don't do resolutions. As an alternative I wait for lent to start.

For lent I am going to give up the usual bad foods I should not be eating and adjust to a better diet regime. I will also be giving up a few other very personal things, but they need to be given up.

I hope those who do resolutions have been successful in keeping them

*BubblyShell22* · 02-18-2012, 05:06 PM

I don't practice Lent anymore because I don't believe in it. However, I wish you luck on your promises, Hero.

01-02-2012, 08:38 AM	#22
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Wow. That sounds like a good resolution, Sassy. Good luck. Journaling is a good thing to do. That way, if you're angry about the drama in your life, you can get it out by writing about it. I haven't really written in a journal for a long time, but when I did, it really helped me. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

01-09-2012, 04:50 PM	#24
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Good luck on all of that, Chip. I really hope you follow through with it. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

01-14-2012, 06:37 PM	#26
pannoni1 Foot Elite Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: USA Posts: 3,447	Think of Lent, Ramadan, and Yom Kippur as occassions to reinforce your New Year's resolutions. I hope to finally reveal to my parents and friends that I'm a TMNT fan, since I've kept it secret (except for the occasional passing glance) ever since I joined this board. I fear that they tell me as "why are you acting like you're 6 years old?", when in fact there are lots of things to appreciate as an adult on here. But my ultimate resolution is simple: find a first date. I'm entering my late 20s, but have still NEVER dated a single lady (don't give me those Irma cliches, please!) Preferably, one that can at least tolerate TMNT (not necessarily a fan, as long as it doesn't annoy her). None of those overrated "get in shape, clean the house, find a better job" resoltuions. Think of this time of year (and always) to plan where you want to dream where you want to be next. __________________ http://forums.thetechnodrome.com/sho...d.php?t=37065- MY WANT LIST TMNT FAN CLUB LINK: http://sot.ag/gCjK/ 30 years of Turtle Power!

01-14-2012, 07:04 PM	#27
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Ugh. I always hated Lent. I never really understood it and don't practice it anymore. But I see where you're coming from. Good luck on your resolution. But my advice would be to not rush the dating scene. Sometimes when you're not looking it'll come your way. Just be patient. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

01-14-2012, 08:27 PM	#29
Katie Just...way too serious. Join Date: May 2005 Location: purgatory Posts: 3,519	I've never really understood the need to hide any likes or dislikes from family. Of all people you should be comfortable being yourself around them. I mean, I'm sure my family has no clue as to why their now adult daughter continues to love ninja turtles, but they accept it. And really I could care less what anyone thinks about what I like and don't. If you don't like who I am, then don't hang around. Be yourself and be happy. My only resolution is to be there for those I love. I figure this is an easy one to keep. It's going to be a year of changes, but it will be a good year. __________________ THE WORLD IS JUST AWESOME

01-01-2012, 11:27 PM	#21
SassyGal Mad Scientist Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: London, Canada Posts: 1,349	I think my resolution is to continue looking forward and leaving the past in the past, where it belongs. After watching some family drama unfold between my mom and her brother regarding my nana and her transition from independent living to living in a nursing home, I have seen the horrible effects of holding onto to past wrongs and grudges. Learning from our mistakes is healthy, but holding onto anger is self-destructive. Watching my mom's already fractured family dynamic implode on itself has been a HUGE wake up call for me. I'm also going to start journalling again. 2012: The year of self reflection for me!

01-08-2012, 11:38 PM	#23
Chipzard Foot Soldier Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Los Angeles, Ca. Posts: 101	My New Year Resolution is cut down on texting, cut down on using the computer/Internet, focus on improving my relationship w my girlfriend, try to get together w old friends to hang out, try some new hobby I guess, eat better foods too! Cut down on movies, save more money, so I can go visit my gf, and get her something special for Valentine, wish me luck!

01-14-2012, 06:23 PM	#25
Chipzard Foot Soldier Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Los Angeles, Ca. Posts: 101	Sigh yeah...my gf said I'm doing better, making some improvements, even my mom too! Still focusing on trying to get a job and so on, trying to save money, doing the best I can. Cuz, my gf coming down for Valentine next month, to celebrate anniversary of 1 yr w me, hope things goes well, of course I know, cuz we talk plans about our future anyway

01-15-2012, 08:19 AM	#30
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	That's actually a really good resolution, Katie and one that I'm sure you'll be able to keep. Good for you. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

02-17-2012, 03:48 PM	#31
Samhain Dare To Be Stupid! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: 1313 Mockingbird Lane Posts: 4,752	Well, in staying with my New Years resolution I have lost 18 pounds since making this thread! Hard work but it's worth it. Here's hoping to many more lost during the year.

02-18-2012, 08:46 AM	#32
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	Yeah, I've stuck with mine, too. I managed to finish a fan fic I'd been keeping on hold for a few years. Yay! __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.

02-18-2012, 01:01 PM	#33
gobo Wacky Action Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: on Earth Posts: 12,784	Haven't died yet! __________________ Live and let live... or go to hell.

02-18-2012, 02:28 PM	#34
Hero British Bloke Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 2,298	I don't celebrate New Year myself, so I don't do resolutions. As an alternative I wait for lent to start. For lent I am going to give up the usual bad foods I should not be eating and adjust to a better diet regime. I will also be giving up a few other very personal things, but they need to be given up. I hope those who do resolutions have been successful in keeping them __________________ Go Green Machine My Facebook -My Tumblr - My Art - Figured 0ut - My Awesome Instagram

02-18-2012, 05:06 PM	#35
BubblyShell22 Leo-holic Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 16,912	I don't practice Lent anymore because I don't believe in it. However, I wish you luck on your promises, Hero. __________________ "A warrior who never fails, never learns."-The Ancient One. "Embrace your inner a**holiness."-Mr. Anderson.