Has being a geek been hard on your love life?

[TheBlueTurtle1]

Originally Posted by Leo656

Honestly it does sound like you could stand to do a little self-improvement. In part, it sounds like you may not always be as upfront with people beforehand as you should be, which I understand if you're worried about scaring them off before they even meet you, but it's deceptive and self-defeating.

Secondly, regardless of whether or not the girl is overweight, very few girls are super-attracted to heavier guys. I don't know you or what you look like, but if that's a common complaint, you may want to do something about that. Not trying to sound harsh, but with most girls, personality and common interests only go so far when it comes to what kind of guys they go for. Lots of girls are a little bit more shallow than they're willing to admit, that's just a fact of life.

Not trying to be a jerk or anything, just going off of the little info you've shared it sounds like you could tighten up your game a little bit.

I agree with this for the most part. I guess it's about balance. You need to make some effort, because most people are shallow to some degree. If your weight is an issue, make it better! You don't need to become Slim Jim of the year, but it would be better for your health.

I think the main part of being in a relationship, is comparise.

Talk out your problems and see if you can meet in the middle.