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Originally Posted by BabyTurtles
when was friend-zone a bad term??  I'm a girl and I never knew that.
how about....only ever gonna be seen as a friend/brother?
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Well, I suppose by definition that term isn't "negative" per say, but its used by lot of guys in the "Boo hoo, the girl isn't screwing me despite the fact I'm nice to her!" way, so for some people they associate term with that.
Anyway, yeaaaah, I don't know any girl who would kiss someone on lips constantly without being interested in them, that'd be just weird, but I suppose in some cultures kisses on cheek can be seen as friendly. But on your other comment... Well, dunno what to say.
I can't really comment on "I can see this person only as friend" thing since thats alien concept to me personally ^_^; I don't see any reason why being friends would prevent romantic interest. And I can't understand referring someone you meet as "being like a brother/sister to me" since to me, siblings whether blood or not have to grow up together. So someone you have known for a year can't be like that to you, not really.